Three Oaks man's family is stuck in Japan
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Posted: 6:15 PM Apr 7, 2008
Last Updated: 6:36 PM Apr 7, 2008
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Half the world separates a Three Oaks man from his wife and young daughter.

His wife, a native of Japan, was told she couldn't come back into the U.S. after a trip abroad, and that was back in December.

Richard Cooper and his wife Yuriko were married in 2006, and welcomed a daughter the following year.

But due to some “miscommunication,” Yuriko stayed in the U.S. during her pregnancy longer than she was allowed.

Now, the family is waiting to see when she and the couple's daughter can come back home to Michigan.

Cooper says it's hard to miss a big part of the first year of his daughter's life.

"We didn't have our Christmas and New Year’s, our baby's first birthday, Valentine’s, and Easter will just go into the past now," Cooper said.

Cooper says immigration officials told them Yuriko could stay in the country while she was pregnant, as long as she had proper doctor’s paperwork. However, he says, it turns out that must not be true.

The couple was shocked in December, when customs officials at O’Hare airport said Yuriko couldn't come back to the U.S.

"In hindsight, it was probably our negligence of not knowing what needed to be done and when. It still begs the question of why a spouse of a U.S. citizen with a U.S. citizen child should have to endure this," Cooper said.

"This" is waiting for Yuriko's visa paperwork to go through, with no answer as to when it will happen.

"Could be months yet, could be sometime this year, could be next year, depends on their backlog, there's just no answer," Cooper said.

Cooper says his church has been a big source of support, but they're missing Yuriko too.

"There’s a real loss in not having her among us and Ayame, who's a beautiful child, and we've just grown to love them," said Rev. Sherri Swanson with Three Oaks United Methodist Church.

They're trying to get something done too, in their own way.

"We have been praying for Yuriko and I’ve told her that, but of course, you know we believe God wants us to do everything we can... So, we've been active in writing letters and talking to anyone we know who might make a difference," Swanson said.

They know the immigration rules are there for a reason, but they're hoping something can be done to bring Yuriko home.

"When there are issues of family… that's something that needs special attention," Cooper said.

Cooper says the best case scenario is Yuriko could be allowed to come home, while her visa is being processed, which isn't impossible, but might require an official to “bend the rules.”

Or, he hopes her paperwork could be expedited, because he says he's been told there's a huge backlog.

Cooper actually just got back from Japan, that's the only way he can see them is by visiting.

His daughter could come back, because she was born here, she's a U.S. citizen.

However, they decided Ayame should stay with her mother until everything is sorted out.

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Posted by: Connie Location: Elkhart on Apr 14, 2008 at 03:06 PM
I married my Mexican husband in 2002 and we had a son in 2004. Following the U.S. State Dept.'s laws my husband has been living in Mexico since 2005. My son will be 4 in June and has lived without his father for nearly 3 years of his life! I have asked for help from numerous sources and this is our system. I am only one of several with the same story. It feels like the Mexican immigrant is expendible. I am glad to see those born in Japan are important to our local news.

Posted by: Mike Location: Michigan on Apr 9, 2008 at 12:43 PM
I just sent an email to Fred Upton. If you would all send an email, we can have a voice in getting this family reunited. Use this link: https://forms.house.gov/wyr/welcome.shtml

Posted by: Tom Location: Leesburg on Apr 8, 2008 at 06:27 PM
Seems like these people made a very unfortunate mistake and its cost them dearly. But the real injustice here is that they have to go through this horrible ordeal for a mistake while millions of intentional illegals get to stay in this country stealing benefits from the government and then get the support of the liberal media and the expectation of amnesty.This is so wrong it defies explanation.

Posted by: Critical Dune Location: Bridgman on Apr 8, 2008 at 03:56 PM
Get on the horn to Fred Upton's office. Ask his staffers to look into it.

Posted by: cristin Location: sb on Apr 8, 2008 at 02:56 PM
Mabey all the people involved in international marrige should band together and make a reform happen. The way things are now is unacceptable, and it sounds like we need to petition for things to change.

Posted by: Connie Location: Warsaw on Apr 8, 2008 at 02:19 PM
So, what's the name of this official who gave them such terrible advice? Keep the family together and send that official out of the country "indefinately"! Just kidding! But, seriously, is there anyway for the Dad to join his wife&child and work overseas for a while until the paperwork is all cleared up? Your children are only young once may seem a little cliche, but it's so true. He should find a way to not miss out on it. Have Mom contact local authorities for help from that side. But, then, I'm sure my advice is redundant to what they are already doing. My prayers will be with all the Coopers-on both sides of the globe.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Valparaiso, IN on Apr 8, 2008 at 01:12 PM
If you watched or read the interview, clearly no special treatment is being granted. That is the whole issue. Immigration doesn't care about anyone and takes their sweet time apparently having tea. Mr. Cooper has been trying desperately to get help from his congressman, senators, representatives, but nothing. No progess, no answers, no promises. Just delays.

Posted by: Jennifer Location: Baroda on Apr 8, 2008 at 01:06 PM
This happened to my cousin - his wife and daughter were sent back to India. After 3 years, he finally decided to move there. Rediculous!

Posted by: Pat Location: Shenandoah on Apr 8, 2008 at 12:18 PM
Rep. Fred Upton should be able to get something done, lord knows he's been in Congress long enough to blackmail(call in favors) his buddies into helping the family. Why don't they just fly to Mexico and sneak in the country through Arizona, or Texas. Everyone else is doing it that way. If you follow what the Government says, you get the shaft....but if you illegally sneak in to the country, you are rewarded. The best inept govt money can buy.

Posted by: Brian Location: South Bend on Apr 8, 2008 at 11:22 AM
Well that just show's how screwed up this country, has becomed.. Where they can't make it easy for a family to stay together.. I wish them the best of luck . To get the family back as one

Posted by: cristin Location: sb on Apr 8, 2008 at 10:54 AM
I think that if one follows the laws, then they should be able to stay. Immigration laws need a serious reform. and the gov. needs to stop draggin it's heels on this issue. I hope that this man can be reunited with his family soon. Immigration laws/regulations are a huge issue that needs to be resolved!!

Posted by: Deborah Desrosiers Location: Three Oaks, MI on Apr 8, 2008 at 10:51 AM
The couple live very close to me. They truly are a family. They are great people and need to be together again. My children are marines and have served since 911. We have been introduced to each other's families and have started a friendship. They have been a great support to me and my family. Mrs. Cooper started as a client of mine and a freindship began. I hope someone will reach out and help resolve this issue. Deborah

Posted by: Alan Location: Elkhart on Apr 8, 2008 at 10:49 AM
I have a houseful of illegals across the street dealing drugs and on welfare, food stamps, their kids getting free lunches at school, but this lady cannot get back in. What a bunch of crap. Perhaps she would have better luck going to mexico and sneaking back in to the USA! Seems to work for all of the illegals from south of the border that cant stand their own country, but don't mind sucking a living off the American taxpayer when they break our laws to get here.

Posted by: LCB on Apr 8, 2008 at 09:34 AM
If the Democratic party has taught me anything, it's this: only chumps obey the rules and laws. Hop the border and you'll get full welfare benefits, free health care, and maybe even amnesty.

Posted by: c on Apr 8, 2008 at 08:58 AM
Oh this is nice. So lets see if I get this right. My druggy illegal neighbors who has 15 people living in his house gets to stay, but this loving mother with her little baby cant get back in. What a crock. I am just trying to undrestand the gov. mind set I think its. Lets let the illegal drug money stay. A mother really dont benifit us much. Come on this is bull #$%@.

Posted by: Steve-O on Apr 8, 2008 at 08:49 AM
Its the same scenerio when an illegal comes to the US and has a kid with an American. She was lucky to receive care in the US compared to overseas. File the proper papers and wait your turn like everyone else.

Posted by: PJ on Apr 8, 2008 at 08:12 AM
Mr. cooper, start to call your house rep., congress. they can put a lot of presser on immigration.

Posted by: Dan Location: Indianapolis on Apr 8, 2008 at 07:59 AM
I agree with you Ed. The only thing is that when she married her husband she didn't become an American. She still has to fill out the paperwork and go through the whole citizenship thing. A friend of mine married a young woman from Korea and she had to still have a visa to live here. They were married 5 years ago and she got her citizenship 3 days before their 5th anniversary. Other than that I completely agree with you.

Posted by: Megan Location: Elkhart on Apr 8, 2008 at 07:47 AM
How incredibly sad (and crazy!) I have a 1 year old son and I can't even imagine having to make him endure this kind of situation. I hope this gets resolved quickly and that this family can be reunited, for one last, long, "forever" time. God speed and blessings!

Posted by: Anon Location: Elkhart on Apr 8, 2008 at 07:23 AM
Maybe she should fly to Mexico and cross the border there. Since it seems to be a free for all at that border. This country is becoming quite the joke. How about a little consistency. Lets focus on the illegal Mexicans and get THEM the hell out of here.

Posted by: Anonymous on Apr 8, 2008 at 02:02 AM
I don't understand why a spouse of an American citizen can't come into the country. It's not like she's asking to work in the country. All she wants to do is to be with her husband. Is this some hyper sensitive law that was brought about after 9/11? What is the problem having a spouse of an American citizen enter the country?

Posted by: N Location: Mishawaka on Apr 8, 2008 at 12:47 AM
I don't understand why she needs a visa anyway. When I married my husband he was given permament residence.

Posted by: Anon Location: Elkhart on Apr 8, 2008 at 12:01 AM
I'm sorry, but this couple chose to not be aware of or disregard the laws and we are suppose to feel sorry for them. Why didn't he bring his daughter home when he visited? I wish them the best, but don't feel sympathy.

Posted by: Simone Location: Valparaiso, IN on Apr 7, 2008 at 10:24 PM
I am Richard Cooper's daughter through his first marriage. It is incredibly immoral that anyone would put a family through such despair. It's beyond sad to know that this would never happen to a Senator's wife, or a Congressman's wife. But an innocent resident of America, and his wife, must be separated for an unseemly amount of time, lost time, for all of us who have missed Ayame's first Christmas, New Years, Birthday, and every normal day of joy she brings us. I thank you for recognizing a minor problem to the World, but a major heart breaking crisis for a family torn apart. Sincerely, Simone Cooper

Posted by: Anonymous on Apr 7, 2008 at 10:18 PM
play by the law ! why to all laws have to be bent just to make your life the way you want it ? err

Posted by: Yeah Right on Apr 7, 2008 at 10:06 PM
INS sent my legally immigrated wife a one year extension on were visa because of the backlog. That etension will be up in a little over a month, and immigration, by their own information, won't get to her case for another 15 months. Some thanks for following the rules.

Posted by: C Location: South Bend on Apr 7, 2008 at 08:13 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family, I think this is ridiculious, by marriage she should be allowed here. And it isn't fair that your daughter is being kept from you either. Good luck and your in my prayers as well. God Bless you and your family!

Posted by: Mary Location: SB on Apr 7, 2008 at 07:44 PM
Unfortunately, you have to get the "answers" several times to make sure the majority are telling you the truth. This happens very often, and their lies or lack of willingness to give you the full story just ends up hurting you in the long run. Insurance companies like to do this type of thing too.

Posted by: Indiana on Apr 7, 2008 at 07:21 PM
Big wooptee doo! Who cares? How many U.S. CITIZENS are serving in the Military right now... separated UNwillingly for months & years due to the war?? Are they getting special treatment to see their babies grow up or bring their wives to them? NO! This broad knew she wasn't a citizen & so did he. They CHOSE for her to go Japan. I don't feel sorry for them and shame on any congressman or elected official who gives them special treatment. If you want to do someone favors then fly some military wives & children over to see their men!

Posted by: cristin Location: SB on Apr 7, 2008 at 07:16 PM
I think that the immigration rules and regulations need a standard. A flat out explaination on what one needs to do to get a green card/citizenship and what you can and cannot do in the mean time while awaiting for an answer in your status. Also I think that it is not ok to split up a family. America was founded by immigrants and I can see no legitimate reason to keep a man and his family apart. I myself am married to a japanese man so I understand how hard it would be to be apart from loved ones. I only hope that my scenerio does not play out like his.

Posted by: Ed Location: Goshen on Apr 7, 2008 at 06:37 PM
Can't let Yuriko back in to this country who was legally here when she married an American but we're suppose to give the illegals amnesty. That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard and a great injustice. I will keep this family in my prayers.


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