Both parents of brain dead 2-year-old charged

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St. Joseph County, IN
Posted: 3:33 PM Dec 5, 2008
Last Updated: 2:31 PM Dec 8, 2008
Reporter: Erin Logan
Email Address: erin.logan@wndu.com

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Escobedo Charges

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As we've been telling you all week, a two year-old is brain dead and charges have now been filed against both her parents.

The two year-old girl's mom, 30-year-old Kristina Byers-Escobedo is charged with neglect.

A warrant is out for her arrest.

Earlier this week, the child's father, 24 year-old Valentin Escobedo was charged with neglect and battery.

He's being held on one million dollars bond and is in the United States illegally.

Authorities who've been doing police work for years say this case hit them hard considering not one, but both parents have been charged.

During the holidays, the Berlincourts love nothing more than having family time.

Across the street, at the Escobedo home it's a different story, more like what they're calling a horror story.

Misty Berlincourt says, “When I heard, I cried. That's what I did.”

Misty Berlincourt cried as she thought about an innocent two year-old's life taken.

According to the charging affidavit, the child suffered severe head trauma, and bruising all over her body.

Kent Berlincourt says, “They were very concealed, looked like a normal family on the street, but we just noticed they didn't talk as much as other people.”

The Berlincourts say they never saw any signs of abuse or neglect, but the lead investigator in this case says there was a long history of abuse. The two-year old had been in and out of the hospital and at one point was placed with other family members.

Child Protective Services and a psychiatrist later determined, Escobedo wasn't a threat to the child.

Kent Berlincourt says, “If there's that much of a history of it, somebody should have stepped in.”

St. Joe County Metro Homicide Unit says they too have been thinking non-stop about what went on at the Escobedo home.

Captain Mike Grzegorek says, “You can't blame any one unit, person, or division. The laws are written in a certain way and when people do things they're supposed to do, they're returned to that home.”

Misty Berlincourt says, “We're shocked. We can't believe it and we wish we could've done something to prevent it.”

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Posted by: Linda Location: wasaw area on Mar 16, 2009 at 08:14 AM
Give Escobedo the death Penalty!20 years he will get out just like the guy that killed mine and my husband nephew in September 2008! Our nephew was only 3 years old! Baby killers need the death penalty!

Posted by: Kendra Location: Michigan on Dec 17, 2008 at 12:31 PM
Her daughter is dead! It is her fault for not protecting her. End of story! Why do people give excuses for situations like this? People need to quit blaming others, society, ADHD whatever for their actions or lack there of.. Take ownership of your mishaps people.. She will get her judgment.. she will have to answer to her innocent little girl one day why she failed to keep her safe. QUIT giving reasons and excuses as to why it wasn't the mothers JOB and RESPONSIBILITY to assure the safety and wellbeing of her child.. whos job was that anyways??

Posted by: tired on Dec 15, 2008 at 10:52 PM
to i am shocked you may have worked with the mom but you didnt know her cause if you did you wouldnt be running your mouth i am sick of all the outsiders casting judgement and talking about what they know so little about you need to remove your head from your a** i hope she never has to see you again either you dont sound worthy of her friendship lets remember the issue at hand is none of your business so as i family member leave her alone as her best friend said it isnt black and white and the investigation is ongoing so let the police department to their job so much is still unknown and your not god so please keep your stupid comments to yourself

Posted by: shocked Location: Mishawka on Dec 14, 2008 at 12:26 AM
I work at the same place as the mom and am shocked - this is not the person I knew at all - with all those people surrounding her that day in court & those friends & relatives that posted here - THERE IS NO EXCUSE she had numerous she could turn too if a problem - PLENTY OF PEOPLE SHE could have lived with and left his abusive a@# she claims to love her kids. Fool cps once shame on them - fool them what 8, 9 10 times shame on her. She is just as guilty. I hope she never sets foot in our building again.

Posted by: bobby Location: St. Joseph County Court on Dec 11, 2008 at 06:29 PM
Sadly, in the end, the Prosecutor and the judges will make it easy for these two get away with murder. Look at Mr. Dvorak's record on people killing people in St. Joseph County. the kids who played a joke on the Military Recruiter at Park Jefferson got more time than the guy who killed Carol Barksdale or the hit and run driver who killed the guy on Edison rd . the prosecutor is seeking re-election and is not sending anyone to prison. The mother was out within 72 hours. the Prosecutor and his little buddies will make sure the parents are out and able to have more kids, very soon. Dvorak out!

Posted by: Michelle Location: Michigan on Dec 11, 2008 at 09:21 AM
To Becky.. CPS won't investigate you for years because of a bruise on a childs leg. I think there is MUCH MUCH more to your story then that.. Come on now do you think we are idiots?

Posted by: Leslie Location: Niles on Dec 11, 2008 at 12:43 AM
"Someone has to pay," says the propagandist. "We can't admit that we may have made a mistake, so let's selectively send info to the people. It will create an emotional response." So, instead of living under the statute of "innocent until proven guilty", the bloggers at WNDU.com decided the verdict. A guilty verdict without all the facts. The part that strikes me the hardest: 99.9% of these bloggers couldn't tell you a damn thing about the Escobedo's before December 2nd. Until the media brought them into your life you knew nothing- and yet you judge so harshly, so hatefully. What a sad, sad existence you must lead. To have no hope in humanity that the worst is the first thing we, no, YOU, turn to... As I lay my head on my pillow tonite, I will say a prayer for a community that knows no love. A community that knows no respect for brothers and sisters, that doesn't give a damn about grief and recognizes no importance in justice. I will say a prayer for this community- "Forgive them."

Posted by: Anon on Dec 10, 2008 at 06:10 PM
Aunt Tammy the only idiot on here is you. You have to be joking that you had no idea what was going on when CPS has been involved in all this. I am a mother and no one would have ever touched my kids. I would have left if that ever happened. Wake up and admit that this child was in danger if she had been taken away once before. People like you make me so mad. This child should have never been placed back in that home. I hope they both get life in prison.

Posted by: T Location: Elk on Dec 10, 2008 at 03:39 PM
Why was the son not abused? Why didn't CPS notice they were illegal? Was the mother staying at home to raise the son, and now had to work durring the daughters baby-hood? too much not making sense.

Posted by: becky Location: elkhart on Dec 10, 2008 at 03:38 PM
I say bull hockey !!! CPS is a joke we've been involved with them for 7 months. Over 1 incident in 7 years. NOT a history of abuse. There is no need for their service on this case it was minor one time incident. Plus it occured to stop a future and worse crime that was being committed by the child. They have wasted their time instead of saving a life in need. I believe when there is a HISTORY of abuse on an innocent child those adults should do time. That child should be removed from the home and not be allowed back for years. Note key word a HISTORY of abuse. Broken bones, burns, etc. Our case involved a bruise on a leg that was gone in 2 days and only happened once in 7 years. NO History and yet we have had to do all sorts of programs and nonsense meetings to convince CPS and DCS that this particular child is not abused or has been or will be in the future. These other cases should not be allowed to have their children if they can't treat them with respect, and love.

Posted by: Sad Mom Location: Mishawaka on Dec 10, 2008 at 02:15 AM
You guys seem to be missing a lot. This animal brutally raped that baby. She presented at the hospital with both fresh and old bruises. It will come out in the trial. Also why didn't Kris call 911 when she found her daughter in a coma when she arrived home? She cleans up the baby before taking her to the hospital instead. Who cares at the hospital if there is vomit on a severly tramatized baby?

Posted by: JOHN Location: elkhart on Dec 9, 2008 at 05:25 PM
Too Bill at 1:57pm 12/8/8 Osceola. You are a SKUMBAG!! what if it was your child?someone should check you out if you have kids,hopefully you don't.As for anyone that thinks a 2 year old can abuse an adult you are just plain nuts and need to be medicated..2 is still in diapers and saying ma ma da da.you bunch of freaks.

Posted by: Anon Location: mish on Dec 8, 2008 at 06:58 PM
Abuse is an ugly thing. Sometimes when people are in it they can't see it or don't want too. I just feel bad for the whole family i mean grandparent, Aunts,Uncles and cousins. They all loss someone they loved very much. People don't make this an immagration issue. Aunt Tammy i'm sorry for your loss. Until you have been in a situation of abuse you can't say anything.

Posted by: B Location: South Bend on Dec 8, 2008 at 05:40 PM
To Aunt Tammy; Seriously, you need a reality check. All of the families supportive friends need reality checks. Whether mom ever laid a hand on her or not she choose to ignore the abuse. Tammy, you must be feeling guilty you keep saying how you live hours away, quit making excuses for turning a blind eye. Did you know of the CPS involvment? I can understand why your sister hid her head in the sand also, seems like your family specializes in deniel. I hope the other child goes to a impartial home and never has to be exposed to your "loving" family again. Remember the last time you saw Maya and know that next time you do if you make it to heaven she will be asking why? Hope you have something better to say then the moronic excuses you post here.

Posted by: Michelle Location: Michigan on Dec 8, 2008 at 05:04 PM
So even you knew that something was going on previously to this incident. CPS doesn't just take a child out of a home without good reason. Being that your comment was that you can not talk about the investigation that was going on previously says a lot about what you knew. I can see why you are defending what happened so hard.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Indiana on Dec 8, 2008 at 01:04 PM
A carless work may kindle strife A cruel word may wreck a life A timely word may level stress A loving word may heal and bless. An innocent child is gone! If you knew her, you had to love her. Instead of all this hate & anger, let's PRAY for the family & friends, and love & protect our own children. We can't change what happened or bring her back, but we can help her loved ones make it through & we can help make sure it doesn't happen to someone else. GOD BLESS & PROTECT HER FAMILY. God will take care of the rest.

Posted by: Alan Location: Elkhart on Dec 8, 2008 at 12:43 PM
He doesn't even look a bit upset in the booking photo. Kinda like... oh well.

Posted by: Julie Location: Plymouth on Dec 8, 2008 at 12:24 PM
I doubt seriously the mother was involved. Her charge of neglect probably stems from her not stopping or reporting her husband. However,obviously from the battery he has done, she was most likely afraid for her life to do anything. And being a spanish family, neither one trusted our government police force being all they want to do these days is harrass or arrest mexicans.

Posted by: Are you kiddin me? on Dec 8, 2008 at 12:16 PM
What is wrong with all you people defending these people. Good mother my a**. A good mother protects their children. When I was a child one lady I knew would be the meanest thing around and slap her kids around until someone came over then she was all kind and sweet. It took yrs for her to do it in front of me. She abused her kids that was my age. I don't believe either one of them should ever see the light of day, once an abuser always that way. They both FAILED at being a parent. They don't deserve the honor of being called a parent. How, just how can you not know your child is being beat? If you don't know your an idiot. Unless your blind your not a good mother, not a mother at all. I am enraged to think you ppl can stand up for these monsters.

Posted by: David Location: Mishawaka on Dec 8, 2008 at 10:13 AM
Make the mother cut his head off.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 8, 2008 at 05:38 AM
to michelle and the i knew your sister person she was taken out of the home before for a situation i cant comment on due to the ongoing investigation and as for the prison time she wont do any im certain of that she honestly didnt think her children were in harms way and yes maybe im in denial but an innocent two year old is gone so im definately in shock you michelle have your opionion as i have mine i am certain if they really thought she did something wrong why would be allowed to spend all of the final hours with her precious little one you answer me that you cant because you dont know what you are talking about first hand only what you read so yes i agree that this is a tradegy and that justice will prevail but i can honestly that their was any abuse i cant assure if i did we probably wouldnt be here in this situation i would never allow anyone to hurt my niece as i would never allow anyone to hurt my own children i would glady go to jail protecting my niece if i had only knew

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 7, 2008 at 10:47 PM
Aunt Tammy-I'm sorry for your loss. I know your sister and I wish she would have made different decisions but none of that can be changed now. I'm certain she is grieving. If all the court documents are right, Kristina will probably end up in prison and need your support. She is lucky to have you in her life for that. Stay strong.

Posted by: Michelle Location: Michigan on Dec 7, 2008 at 10:23 PM
To Aunt Tammy.. ignorance is bliss isn't it??? Can you answer a previous posters question as to why this child was taken from them prior to this incident and then returned (from actual court documents, not this article.. so yes that is a FACT) If she was such a great mother she would have protected her dear child from this horrible abuse. Read the court documents, they don't lie and either you are in complete denial over what kind of mother your sister was, or just as guilty yourself. Either way I feel for this poor little angel.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 7, 2008 at 08:52 PM
And again the system fails another child. This is very sad i pray for that poor baby. As for the awful parents and the social worker and judge who let this child go home to this kind of behavior you will all get yours on judgement day. I do blame this on the system failing to protect this innocent 2 year old child when they knew she was in danger.

Posted by: aunt tammy on Dec 7, 2008 at 08:49 PM
to julie you are stupid i am guilty of nothing and i would not ever have let someone hurt my baby niece i didnt have a clue and i am a mom of two year old quads so this is heart breaking cause when i tuck them in i cry for her wishing i were tucking her in my heart is broke at her loss but i saw my sister take very good care of them i dont understand why its so hard to believe my sister was clueless there was always a reason for everything or so we thought it kill me that you would say something like that about me i am a darn good mom who every time i look at my babies is thinking the same thing you are she should be here with us for christmas but i cant bring her back and the negetive bs wont either i would like to grieve and worry about her brother whom i cant wait to see i cant say how but i do know he is good and being taken care of

Posted by: aunt tammy on Dec 7, 2008 at 08:31 PM
to all you idiots out there the mother wasnt hiding and she did turn herself in she immediately bonded out and to robin you are a disgrace i helped take care of my niece when i coule see her although i live hours away and i do have the right to grieve i did nothing wrong as my sister did nothing wrong you know what you read i have the facts i have lived the whole two years up close and personal and never was anyone ever charged with neglect or abuse it was an investigation that was later left to have found no substation of abuse and i loved my niece so i say to you what goes around comes around and you are not god so you can judge all you want you dont know what i do and i do know a hell of alot more than you so let her rest in peace and keep your bad attitude off here

Posted by: H on Dec 7, 2008 at 08:08 PM
I do not know the laws regarding illegals so forgive me but why was this man allowed to stay in the U.S. if he was suspected for abusing a child? Wouldn't it be found out by one of these agencies that he was here illegally before it ever got to this point?

Posted by: Nicole Location: Stevensville on Dec 7, 2008 at 01:16 PM
To Anon ~ Umm you have your facts mistaken.. it is ultimatley up to the social worker of the case. The others report their findings to the social worker who makes the decision and passes it along to the judge. So it was ultimately their decision. As to them not being miracle workers and knowing what goes on behind closed doors..nope they dont, BUT most social workers push for children to be back with the parents.. it is inbedded in them that its the best place for the child. So they ignore things.. Accck makes me sick. IMO once a child is taking from a parent due to abuse he/she should NEVER go back. And all future children should be removed immediatley.

Posted by: Anon Location: South Bend on Dec 7, 2008 at 02:19 AM
People who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones. Wait for the whole story. KRISTINA, I'm praying for you, know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know you were a GREAT mother. I haven't talked to you in a while, but I know that everything isn't being said. Your angel is in HEAVEN, although it's hard, I take comfort in knowing that she's in a better place. I'm praying for your son also...

Posted by: Celia Location: New Carlisle on Dec 7, 2008 at 01:57 AM
Good Friend of the mother - Kristina has been my friend for several years now. She is one of the kindest, most thoughtful, loving, considerate people I have ever met. She is a beautiful person. I don't know what went on in that home, and I have read the reports. I was there when the baby was taken from them the first time. It tore Kris up and she was devastated. She did not believe her husband could have done it. They have a son who has NEVER been hurt. Why would only one child suffer such awful abuse. We all thought that maybe Maya had a medical issue that caused frequent bruising and weak bones. To be close to the family and spend time with the kids, you would think the same. To lie for Val was wrong and I'm sure Kristina knows that...she just didn't believe he could be such a horrible monster. I love her and her family and pray for Kristina and her son. May the Good Lord take care of them here on earth and may He comfort Maya in heaven. They have all suffered enough.

Posted by: jim Location: HELL on Dec 7, 2008 at 12:11 AM
The mother was AMAZING! so was Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin, Attila and Saddam Hussein!

Posted by: N.S. on Dec 6, 2008 at 11:48 PM
To Julie: Just want to say Amen !

Posted by: Laila Location: Sbi on Dec 6, 2008 at 11:01 PM
I am very much sadden by what has happen to this poor little defenseless girl. As of now my husband and I are struggling to conceive. Woman take having children for granted. I go to the stores and see all these young girls with their kids and they are so mean to mean. I so much want to pick them up and cuddle and love them to let them know that things will be okay. I can just imagine what it is like for them at home. We all don't know what goes on behind close doors. This woman should be held responsible for what happen to this poor baby,as the same as the father should be. She could see the marks, she had to know that this child was in unbearable pain. I don't believe for a second that she didn't know what was going on. I think that a lot was going on in that household than will never know. My heartfelt sympathies go to the family of this little girl. We need to change things, as mothers you have to be the protector not the villian.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:35 PM
TO: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:01 PM:: You say that "she is an amazing mother" ~ ARE YOU KIDDING ME? This TWO year old BABY has a history of abuse and had been removed from the family! How in the H do you call that an amazing mother??? I call that a pathetic excuse for a piece of trash mother. She cared more about the low life she lived with then her baby. Then you tell us you worked in the "social work field"... somehow that doesn't surprise me. You people who work in that field have an amazing ability to turn a blind eye to suffering children... that's how they turn up beat to death. Hopefully you're using your astonishing abilities for something more productive by now... possibly cleaning toilets or something equally fitting where you can find a new "best friend".

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 6, 2008 at 08:45 PM
I hope at the very least the father spends a great deal of time in prison, gets beaten to death by fellow inmates and then spends the rest of eternity in hell... again, at the very least.

Posted by: What the..... on Dec 6, 2008 at 07:52 PM
As I read down the list I realizee there are more idiots around me than I realized. A few of you surprise me that you can even use a computer. Sarah, I hope you can never reproduce, your not that bright. A 2yr old out of control? No that would be the parents not taking care of their child, thats all. Tammy, as far as casting judgement your right. I am. I think they both outta rot in hell where they belong. They don't deserve the air they breathe in. If my husband ever so much as touched one of my children in a threatening manner he would be the one at the hospital hoping he makes it. There is no excuse for either one. You don't deserve to be a mother if your child is being beaten and you don't know it, your no mother at all.

Posted by: unknown Location: south bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 06:58 PM
wow i did not know that there were that many ignorant people in south bend all at once. i understand your frustration but people get things mixed with unimportant facts such as why she married an illegal and another one is she was in welfare, who cares about those facts the only fact is that the child is dead and you being ignorant about the situation and its just pathetic, so stop adding unnessary and useless comments unless its a smart one or a comment comforting the relatives that are deeply hurt by the loss of the child.

Posted by: Chuck on Dec 6, 2008 at 06:23 PM
As Richard Marx said in the song "Children of the Night" I know I'm bound for Heaven cause I'vr done my time in Hell.

Posted by: Joe Location: Elkhart on Dec 6, 2008 at 05:54 PM
A two year old out of control and abusing the parents? You fail..

Posted by: Joe Location: Elkhart on Dec 6, 2008 at 05:52 PM
Christina, the father being here illegally does make a difference. Let's do the math; father not able to enter the u.s., doesn't marry the mother, doesn't father this child, child doesn't get abused. Simple..

Posted by: saddened mom Location: Cromwell on Dec 6, 2008 at 05:49 PM
An innocent child has lost its life needlessly. Showering hatred around is not going to change that. Lets let the judge and jury do their jobs.

Posted by: TO SARAH!!!! on Dec 6, 2008 at 05:33 PM
WHAT DO YOU MEAN "NO ONE KNOWS WHAT THE CHILD DID, MAYBE SHE WAS OUT OF CONTROL???" ARE YOU CRAZY?? IT SEEMS YOU ARE IMPLYING THAT THE CHILD SHOULD TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR BEING ABUSED AND BEATEN TO DEATH. I PRAY TO GOD THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY OF YOUR OWN CHILDREN...YOU DONT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT PARENTING REQUIRES PATIENCE AND LOVE, NOT KILLING A CHILD BECAUSE THEY ARE "OUT OF CONTROL"

Posted by: Joe College Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 05:10 PM
Sarah--a two year old abusing its parents? Give us a break.

Posted by: anon Location: elk on Dec 6, 2008 at 04:14 PM
NICOLE- the social worker is not the only one to make the decisions to send children home... he/she is backed and pushed by therapists as well as supervisors and ultimately THE JUDGE once safety is established. Social workers etc can not know that a "rehabilitated" parent is gong to relapse. The family was in denial and if the mother was a real mother to begin with and protected her child then the decision wouldnt have to be left up to a social worker or therapists etc. why do we need social workers to ensure safety of OUR OWN CHILDREN?? I dont have a social worker, but I also PROTECT MY OWN KIDS. Quit pushing the blame on everyone else. I am sure that social worker feels bad enough and is grieving this as well, however it is out of their control what people do in their own homes when no one is around.

Posted by: shawn Location: niles on Dec 6, 2008 at 04:09 PM
25 to life hopefully. what great parents...

Posted by: Robin, Location: Goshen on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:42 PM
Commenting to Aunt Tammy is a total waste of time, she is in denial! There has been a history of abuse and the mother should also be held responsible!! As for the dad, giving him a sentence of death is getting off easy, it's too fast. Let the guys in prison take care of him!!! They give special treatment for people like him!! Let him suffer with that for the rest of his life!

Posted by: N Location: MISH on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:18 PM
IM SORRY BUT I DONT THINK THEY HAVE ARIGHT TO GREIVE

Posted by: Lisa Location: New Carlisle on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:14 PM
My heart goes out to anyone who knew this child. As a mother & grandmother I just want to know why this is not murder?? An innocent child is dead and it is only child neglect. Can some offical explain why this is not murder? If you did this to the neighbor child that would be murder. If it is your own child you can spend a few years in jail and then have more kids. Penalties for these crimes should be TOUGHER. God will know take care of this child as angels are hard to find. I say both parents should be beaten to death!

Posted by: P!$$#& OFF Location: MISHAWAKA on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:12 PM
OMG AUNT TAMMY IF THAT WAS MY FAMILY I WOULDNT BE SAYING "THE ONLY GOOD THAT CAME OUT OF THIS IS HER ORGAN GOING TO ANOTHER CHILD" IM SORRY BUT SHE A BABY AND SHE DIDNT DIE OF CANCER SHE DIED BECAUSE THESE PARNET HAVE NO HAERT SHE SHOULD STILL BE HERE

Posted by: Margaret Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:00 PM
Put an electrified fence around the borders-kick out all of the illegals-revamp CPS. When this jerk goes to jail, he will be taken care of by the other inmates.

Posted by: Sarah on Dec 6, 2008 at 02:47 PM
you all are just assuming this child is totally innocent? now one is asking what the child did, maybe it was out of control , maybe the parents were getting abused you never know these days.

Posted by: Bill Location: Osceola on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:57 PM
Geez...he only killed one kid...why's everyone so upset? He's probably here doing work we don't want to do!

Posted by: anonymousa on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:54 PM
In my opinion the so called social workers should be held liable also. I have had experience myself with these people and they do not know what they are doing... They make poor judgements to try to make someone happy, even if it means jepordizing another well being or life. SHAME SHAME on them I wonder if they even have a contience. The poor little girl died in one of the worse ways possible, and the SOCIAL WORKERS fed her to the animals. They dont work for the intrest of the child, they try to make peace, and in most cases it doesnt work. Yes the child was placed with family members in the past, that helped for the time being. I cant believe that someone didnt know this would happen again. ONCE AN ABUSER, ALWAYS AN ABUSER...It sickens me that this happened. Myself was in a similar situation and I stepped up to take custody of my grandchild, and even if the parents say they are sorry or seem not to be a threat, GUESS WHAT too late. you screwed up once and there is no second chance.

Posted by: Saddened Location: anytown usa on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:18 PM
I am extremely saddened by the events that have occured in this poor angel's life!I can not imagine being in a situation of abuse by a husband/boyfriend/parent,therefore I can not condemn the woman.I have noted that others in this type of situation have been so terrified of the abuser finding them and punishing them if they left that the abused stay out of fear.I do not see anywhere that states the monster was illegal or that he was illegal until married to the woman,doesn't matter anyway,he is a monster whether a native of another country or a native of ours (yes there are abusers that are born here,believe it or not).To the monster-I certainly hope you get what you deserve,the rest of your life fearing abuse by those in the prison system.To the woman-I'm sorry if you felt there was nothing you could do,there are many ways out of abuse situations,don't belittle yourself into thinking you can't live without this monster.If you only hid the events because you love him,rot in prison too

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Mishawaka on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:10 PM
I'll never understand why monsters like this get to have children and repeatedly abuse them. There are so many families out there who cannot have children (like my husband and I) who would love to have given this little girl a heathly loving home. Something isn't right when I have to pay thousands of dollars, go thru invasive interviews and have someone come into my home to prove I can care for a child, yet this guy gets to beat the crap out of his child and get her back a few months later. How many more children have to die before something's done?

Posted by: Saddened and disgusted Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:57 PM
After having read the court documents I must say that the system certainly failed this poor little girl. She was abused practically from the time she was born and her father was given several chances. He should never have been able to return to live with her time after time. The mother was certainly responsible for ignoring the situation repeatedly and allowing it to happen. He was here illegally and should have been deported from the get-go. I hope that the brother of the young girl will not grow to mimic the behavior of his father.

Posted by: Sharon on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:48 PM
To Aunt Tammy I am so sorry for the loss of your niece. This poor little Angel had so a horrible time here on earth in her short life. She is in such a better place away from these terrible parents she was given. However these parents need to pay the price and that should be a high price. You lived hours away so you do not know what happened in this home. So do not condem us for speaking what we feel. If the child was taken away at one time there was a very good reason and you know it. This was not the first time this little Angel was in the hospital. Your sister and her husband need to go to jail for life for this. They deserve worse for killing a child and watching it happen. I am a mother of 2 and NO ONE would have ever laid a hand on them nor would I have stayed with that person if they had. After these children were returned your sister should have never left then alone with him. Open your eyes and see what they did to this poor baby. God will make sure she never hurts again.

Posted by: Mom on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:41 PM
For people who are responding to the early comments on this article: The article has now been updated with more info, the previous article only had info on the childs condition and had not printed about a history of abuse. So some early comments may not now represent the person's true opinion. Thanks WNDU for updating.

Posted by: me Location: laporte on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:31 PM
the father is going to a place where child abusers are not tolerated,he will get his,over and over again.even convicts have standards and they will teach him the error of his ways.same thing for the mother.the poor little girl is in a better place now,where she is free from abuse and it is her time to play and dream as all children should be allowed to do.and instead of using your voice to bash people on a comment board,use it to change the system.voice your disapproval to the people who can change it,hold the cps accountable and make it publicly known that the system failed,and more importantly to force them to answer why the system failed.condemn all who failed this child and lets band together with one voice and MAKE the system change!!!

Posted by: mike on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:28 PM
messed up system. too reactive, too little money for resources. i hate the news....gotta stop watching.

Posted by: mom Location: granger on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:20 PM
I have an idea... take care of your kids then we wont have to pay people to work for CPS. They never post headlines of all the good CPS has done and how many kids ARE protected. CPS people nor the therapists they consult with are mind readers or are able to predict the future... especially if the parents do their part and use the help they are given.

Posted by: Felix Location: Benton Harbor on Dec 6, 2008 at 11:33 AM
Evil that is what is in the people same thing that is up with the horse.

Posted by: Elle Location: Indiana on Dec 6, 2008 at 10:48 AM
After reading most of the charges (I am literally sick) I think the psychiatrists who believed the parents were no threat need to be held accountable and our their licenses revoked and not allowed to practice again. The should be held accountable for allowing this child to be left alone with a known abuser, both before and after the DCS was closed. She refused to follow DCS's rules and allowed this man back around Maya. She now has to live with this for the rest of her life. A tragedy that could have been prevented if the mother cared more about her child than about the father. I wish DCS would have taken further action during the time the father wasnt allowed near the child. I am wondering if during this time that the care was open with DCS if the child had a CASA and was determined a child in need of services. Rest in Peace little Maya.. you will hurt no more... Much love from someone who didn't even know you.

Posted by: Liska Location: South bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 10:35 AM
This society is becoming so anti child. When this scum is in jail he should have a sign "child killer" they'll take care of him. When someone abuses a child (or animal) they should get what they did to the child. and CPS STINKS in the county and state--are you listening MITCH, they can say child abuse, they should also call this first degree , this was someone TOTALLY INNOCENT. and excuse me, if a child just falls down stairs they get bruised, frequent fractures ARE evidence of child abuse OR they should check infantile arthritis, a child's bones are soft and developing and dont break as easy, so fractures are blunt force, GET REAL to family, if the mother is too intimidated or dumb to see abuse, SOMEONE else should. another problem with the system, someone can have drugs or break in and rob a store and get more time in jail than someone doing harm to someone, judges and lawyers and other paper pushers should actually VISIT the houses,of these scum, they will be shocked

Posted by: K. Location: Elkhart on Dec 6, 2008 at 10:18 AM
we need to hang them for what they done to take little girl.

Posted by: teepee Location: Mishawaka on Dec 6, 2008 at 10:18 AM
Why is the mother hiding if she did nothing wrong? They have a warrant out for her.She needs to turn her self in. I feel she knew what was going on in that house. If he could abuse that baby he abused her too. Sounds like he did not work just stayed home or in hiding because he is here illegal. If she was working alot then what the heck did he do for her nothing. I know the family will say she loved him. Fine but the love for your baby should and always come first. Like they say men will come and go but your child will love you forever. My heart goes out to this little child. If your own mother could not protect you I know god and the angels will. I hope they find that mother soon. I'm sorry but the mother had to see some marks of abuse on that baby. I bet after she is found she will say she was afraid of him and could not say anything. Well it sounds like she had a family that cares about her so she could of reached out to them for help and also turn him in send him back.

Posted by: Chaz Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 10:15 AM
No Julie, killing that child is not Christ like, but that does not give anyone an excuse to pray for them to rot in hell. At least not in my bible.

Posted by: Elle Location: Indiana on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:51 AM
Arrrrrrrrrghhhh!! What is wrong with ppl??? I strongly urge those who care about children to step fwd and become a child advocate through their local CASA program. Children in the system NEED a voice in the courts. Had I been this child's CASA and known that this child had been previously abused I would have fought with all I had in me to keep this child safe and not returned home. These innocent children NEED a voice for them!

Posted by: Whatever on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:21 AM
Yeah, let's just keep popping out these "precious angels" and "gifts fron god". Make sure as they grow up, they have their Wii's, X boxes and Ipods, so they can become fat and lazy. Make sure that when they are teenagers, they get a cell phone to give them another reason to be rude and disrepectful. Make sure they understand that the only way to live life is to prey on welfare, food stamps and that they don't have to support themselves, the state will do it for them. Make sure they get that there is no accountiblity anymore. They can always blame ADHD, ADD, past abuse and whatever else, to get out of whatever trouble they might get into. Above all, don't teach your children that a $4 dollar box of condoms can keep children from having children. That is against "god's will". Change the fact that to these welfare mom's more kids equals more $$. WNDU probably won't print this, but I needed to get this off my chest. And no. I don't have kids, never wanted them, and am glad I don't

Posted by: chris Location: Goshen on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:20 AM
What is wrong with people?Are they people or demons living in our world?This thing that abused this baby needs to be put from us. No second chance.The mother hah! Should also go to hell for her crime of sitting by and letting this happen.Hello baby sitter are you mad?You also sat by and did nothing.Shame on you.To our legal system get your heads out of the clouds.People are bad and should never have custody of their children. Abuse is abuse.This is really sad that our legal system would give these people their child back.Way to go idiots!This baby suffered her entire life.I hope there are those that gave this baby back who are feeling guilty of their poor choices.

Posted by: Nicole Location: Stevensville on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:12 AM
To Aunt Tammy ~ I am sorry for your loss, however this incident isn't the result of your sister going to work and the father losing it. It has a long history of abuse to this poor child. Yes the POOR child not poor parents. Your sister knew what abuse was going on and let it happen. She chose to stand by her man and ignore the wellbeing of her child. If you say that this was a one time deal.. then why was this child taken from them the first time? Answer that! And I also condemn those who said this was a safe environment to return the child to. How sad! I hope the social worker that returned the child lives with that guilt for the rest of his/her life as well! RIP little one.

Posted by: Mark Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 09:03 AM
Tammy, are you legal? As far as I'm concered your sister must not be all there getting involved with this clown. Another case of "He's a great guy when he isn't hitting me!".

Posted by: Julie on Dec 6, 2008 at 08:59 AM
To Aunt Tammy - you say "im sick of everyone blaming my sister would you rather she be on welfare and not have went to work that day that is all she is guilty of supporting her children and loving them with all her heart" I'D RATHER SHE BE ON WELFARE AND GET THAT BABY OUT OF THERE AT ALL COSTS!! WHATEVER SHE NEEDED TO DO TO KEEP THE BABY FROM BEING BEAT TO DEATH! FYI~ A MOTHER WHO "loves her children with all her heart" DOES NOT I repeat, NOT LET ANY MAN BEAT HER CHILD, REPEATEDLY UNTIL IT DIES!! Get a clue - you're every bit as guilty as your sister, if you had any clue this was happening and worse yet now you're trying to justify it?? You probably would stand by and let some idiot do the same thing to your own child... And by the neglect? They're being charged with neglect? What a pathetic child protective service and protective laws we have in Indiana. I am embarrassed to even admit I live here - how sad.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 6, 2008 at 08:57 AM
what about the broken clavicle, ribs and elbow that was reported on this child in 2006. why were no charges filed by the prosecuter and why did CPS not take this child away permanently?

Posted by: Perspective Location: Here on Dec 6, 2008 at 08:27 AM
Okay, I have read the court papers and I have spoken with people that know the mother personally - my opinion has changed. He will get what he deserves in prison. As for the mother, while I do not think she ever directly harmed her child, she placed in child in an environment that was known to be dangerous for the baby. I have zero pity for either parent and they deserve everything they get. My only concern now for their son. I hope that he has been placed with other family members now.

Posted by: To Aunt Tammy on Dec 6, 2008 at 07:49 AM
According to the tribune, your sister was not at work, she was at the movie with friends. I immediately question her integrity for marrying an illegal. And you state you live four hours away so how can you even defend your sister if you had not observed the injuries first hand? As for the "father" of this child, I have a proposal for all of the illegals that are criminals. If the state's money is going to be used for defense (you know there will be some court appointed attorney), trial, and incarceration, I say that the facilities should be equivalent to those in Mexico. If you want to live in our country, but not live by the rules (and that includes obtaining citizenship), you can reside in a Mexican equivalent jail. We are always reminded about how important it is for the rest of us to recognize and appreciate your heritage.

Posted by: joe on Dec 6, 2008 at 07:04 AM
terrible

Posted by: Christina Location: Mishawaka on Dec 6, 2008 at 06:59 AM
I am disgusted with this website for allowing ignorant people to post ignorant comments. Comments based on their personal opinions, not based on the true situation, which they will never really know what happened. I am also disgusted with the comments about the father not being in the US legally. Being a legal or illegal citizen does not make you more prone to abusing a child. Mind your own business people.

Posted by: Tim Location: South Bend on Dec 6, 2008 at 04:21 AM
I knew he was an illegal alien even before they added that bit of information. It is a crime wave they're producing.

Posted by: David Location: Mishawaka on Dec 6, 2008 at 03:28 AM
Tammy, regardless if your the "aunt" or not, that doesn't stop the fact that your sister "neglected" (as they call it) her baby! and that her husband, abused the baby. she let it go on, and now she's getting what she deserves. DEAL WITH IT!!!!

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 6, 2008 at 02:56 AM
Another sign that the Family Court System needs to be revamped completely. Great job Mitch!

Posted by: aunt tammy on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:40 AM
to oh please this is what is have to say to you my sister didnt know anything was wrong or going on as you say and the father is innocent until proven guilty i didnt say he didnt do anything i said we werent there so how can we place blame my sister is innocent of any wrong doing say whatyou want you are ignorant and dont have a clue in hell as to what you are talking about and my family isnt messed up any more than yours i didnt know any thing bad would happen anymore than my sister so you need to quit hiding who you are and put your name out there you talk about denial your afraid to let people know who your are and how you believe and like i said leave us alone we are grieving no matter what you think i am a mother of two year old quads and my heart is breaking for niece and what she went thru so stop judging i am at a loss for what happened and totally in a state of shock so please let maya rip she wouldnt like hearing of people talking crap about us what nerve you have

Posted by: Jessica Location: Elkhart on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:33 AM
Both of the "parents" should be locked up and get what they deserve in prison. I don't understand how people like that can actually have kids? As for CPS they are a joke. I have NO USE for CPS! I have dealt with them personally. These poor innocent children being beaten and killed by their "parents". They will have to face God one day. Poor little angel.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:14 AM
CPS is a real joke. They are at fault here. Once a child is removed why would anyone send them back for more abuse? CPS employees can't run their own lives why and the hell are they allowed to senetence an innocent child to a life of misery and then say oh well we tried. Bull crap. The parents deserve the death penalty and someone at CPS if not everyone should be held liable and do jail time too. CPS you suck.

Posted by: aunt tammy on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:11 AM
i am appalled at the accucations and the nerve of someone out their to say what a rotten family we are omg we live four hours away from my little angel and her brother how can you even say that we did nothing wrong and as for the new saying their was bruising all over her body that is a bold face lie yes there was severe trauma to her head but her body wasnt brusied from head to toe i am a mom of several children and i have a two year old and my heart is breaking and i constantly cry grieving my niece and the only good that can come of this is that her organs have been donated so another child can have a chance at living i am hoping and praying the media will leave us alone to grieve in private at the funeral they need to realized we are not just another story we are humans mourning the loss of our loved one we want maya to rip she is heaven and god is loving her so we miss her greatly maya aunt tammy will always remember the good times that all i have left

Posted by: Oh please! on Dec 6, 2008 at 01:02 AM
Tammy-Get a clue girlfriend! You are obviously in denial! Your whole family is obviously messed up!

Posted by: Trucker Location: USA on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:59 AM
Now is whern the US prison system will be the judge, jury and exicutioners. It seems to me that prisoners are ok with someone robbing someone, but heaven forbid somebody hurts a child. I say we give the prisoners who "Tend to these people, and give them a welcome beating down" some extra time off their sentances, or atleast give them an extra peice or two of chocolate cake.

Posted by: aunt tammy on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:53 AM
to amy why are you so harsh i am the aunt of the two year old baby so i know first hand what im talking about so you need to not be such a witch im sick of everyone blaming my sister would you rather she be on welfare and not have went to work that day that is all she is guilty of supporting her children and loving them with all her heart and as for the where was the mom im tired of the judging she would have never left had she though anything bad would happen she didnt allow anything to happen to her baby you people are stupid if you believe that you dont know her so you need to keep your opionions to yourself and for those out there who said im glad their behind bars my sister is not she was immediately bailed out she deserves to be home grieving for her little one not locked up do you lock people up for loving their child no and i dont believe you haters need to discriminate what goes around comes around rip maya my little angel

Posted by: Nancy Location: Granger on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:45 AM
nory:from mishawaka: I raised four children two are now in the Marines doing 20 yrs and have 3-5 more to go,They are all married and have families and they were and always will be the whole world to me and the grandkids.And I just want to say I agree with you so much on your statement of it doesn't seem like children are top priority anymore in their parents lives,and that is really sad.

Posted by: A MOM Location: Mshawaka on Dec 6, 2008 at 12:29 AM
WHY WAS HE IN THE USA? HE IS A ILLEGAL. WHY IS IT THAT HE AND OR HER ABUSED THIS BABY FOR SO LONG AND NOBODY DID ANYTHING ABOUT IT? IT'S A CRYING SHAME. SENTENCED HIM AND THE MOTHER, TO THE SAME FATE THEY DID TO THAT BABY GIRL.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:54 PM
For those of you saying that the mother didn't know, that is just a bunch of bull! Read the charges, she knew what was going on!!! This is just a horribly sad story. I feel terrible for the poor little 5 year old boy

Posted by: tammy Location: shelbyville on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:50 PM
to the neighbors of the escobedos i am the aunt of the

Posted by: Carol on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:44 PM
This low life trash deserve no less than life in prison in exchange for the life of this precious innocent child and I hope and pray that the prisoners WHEREVER they are traet them in the same manner they treated their little one!!!!

Posted by: nory Location: mishawaka on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:39 PM
There are to many stories lately of child abuse, child neglect, just like the little boy who got electricuted, and died. parents need to pay more attention to there childrens whereabouts, and for this little baby, someone should have seen this coming, and done something about before it came to this. It just dont seem like children are top priority in parents life anymore these days, to me there is nothing more important than my children, just wish more ppl seen it that way. God bless these two children, and may they rest in peace.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:18 PM
After reading the Escobedo Charges, I am sickened that the mother could ALLOW this to happend. This is her flesh and blood. How could she allow this monster to hurt this beautiful baby? I am glad they behind bars in the county jail. May they stay there. This is sick.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:06 PM
Posted by: Chaz Location: South Bend on Dec 5, 2008 at 04:45 PM Anonymous, that's certainly not very Christlike. - - - - - - - - - - - - Beating the hell out of a 2 year old isn't very Christlike either now is it???

Posted by: A SAD SAD MOTHER Location: SOUTH BEND INDIANA on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:05 PM
THIS IS SO SAD, I WORK AT MEMORIAL ON PEDS UNIT AND THIS JUST BREAKS MY HEART TO SEE THIS LITTLE GIRL LIKE THIS SUCH A SWEET INNOCENT LITTLE GIRL HOW COULD ANYONE DO THIS TO A CHILD IT JUST HURTS, AT LEAST GOD WILL TAKE GOOD CARE OF HER WITH SO MUCH LOVE SHE WILL BE AN ANGEL THAT WILL BE MISSED, WE ALL LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL.

Posted by: Amy Location: Elkhart on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:50 PM
Tammy in Shelbyville, are YOU that STUPID or do you think we are that STUPID? Tell it to GOD honey.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:48 PM
I could really care less for all these people defending the mother....even if you knew her. The first time someone lays a hand on your child thats it...you leave! Obviously she knew that her baby was being abused and she stuck around...she is just as much to blame here!

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:44 PM
I can't take this I read very little of the charges and just couldn't finish...this poor baby. In all of this there is also a 5 year old little boy that will have to live life without loving parents and having lost his little sister. These people should rot in hell. Give the little boy to me I would give him all the love he deserves plus some.

Posted by: Amy Location: Elkhart on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:43 PM
This is the type of thing the death penalty was meant for! I don't want my tax money feeding, clothing or housing that scum! I certainly hope the other scum in jail welcome this guy in the same manner he welcomed his new born child.

Posted by: Anon Location: South Bend on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:41 PM
OKAY, I'm also a friend of the mother. SHE IS A GOOD MOTHER. She is guilty of NOT RECOGNIZING a pattern. She was a mother who works A LOT of hours, to ensure her family had the best LIFE. THIS IS NOT HER FAULT!!!!! KRISTINA is a GOOD PERSON, with and EVEN better heart. I'm praying for you Kristina. When I first heard the story didn't want to believe it was you guys... I'm so sorry this has happened.

Posted by: me Location: berrien county on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:32 PM
Having dealt with child protective services i can pretty much say it is a joke. They tend to not do anything for anyone seeking help for a problem. Paper pushers is how I would describe them. As for these two low lifes a life in prison is too good for them. Maybe they need to be put on a life support system until they pass away from old age.

Posted by: michelle Location: Niles on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:18 PM
I dont understand why you pukes have children and keep them if your going to abuse them, this is unreal. If your going to abuse them why not just give them up for adoption to someone that will love them and not hurt them. There are so many families that cant have children & hearing stuff like this just make me sick to my stomach. NO child deserves this. I pray for this little angel that never had a chance.

Posted by: Totally Disgusted and Mad Location: Mishawaka on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:11 PM
I just read the police report from above...this is sickening and totally inexcusable! How this little girl could have fallen through the cracks with these monsters for parents is beyond me. Why in the name of God didn't the babysitter do something to prevent this girl from being killed. This little angel's parents need to rot in hell. I hope their 5 year old boy gets a decent home to grow up in, at least they didn't murder him!!! I know the father comitted the act, but the mother had to be totally ignorant and gutless to let this go on for all of this time! I feel sick to my stomach...

Posted by: Karen on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:07 PM
What goes around, comes around! May this poor baby RIP and may we all pray that her five year old brother is spared from this experience and placed into a better home and given a better chance at life.

Posted by: Crystal on Dec 5, 2008 at 09:53 PM
I have one question: Why is it that when a child is murdered by her parents there is always a history of abuse and nothing has been about it? Why is it that CPS and the prosecutors office had knowledge of his abusive way towards this innocent, helpless baby yet she was in his care so that he could beat her to death? I sure wish charges could be filed against all the agencies that had knowledge of what he has been doing to her and allowing him to be around her and ulitmately kill her as well as both parents since obviously the mother knew as well. God help the man that thinks he will put a hand on one of my children, I will kill him before he can hurt my babies.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 5, 2008 at 09:10 PM
This is your tax dollars at work in Indiana's child protective services. How pathetic - how sad.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 5, 2008 at 09:09 PM
To all of you defending the mother and saying maybe the kid fell or maybe the mom didn't know... go back and read the story, note the details; there was a long history of abuse, she was in and out of the hospital, she had been taken out of the home before due to abuse. Did you get all that? The mom KNEW. The mom ALLOWED the abuse - not a fall, not a scraped knee, but INTENTIONAL ABUSE. Got it? She's just as guilty as the scumbag in jail. No mother allows this to happen this woman just gave birth ~ that's it.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 09:08 PM
Mom in Mishawaka, the only mistake the mother made was not seeing a pattern. As many times as the child was injured while with the father, how could you not know something was wrong. I work 24 hour shifts and my 12 year old daughter stays home with my husband. If God forbid there was ever a pattern of abuse as there was in this case my daughter would absolutely not be left alone with him. And for that matter he would not be around. As mothers it is our job to protect our children and never choose our own happiness over their safety. There was an obvious pattern of injuries indicating abuse and the child was taken from the home multiple times. How as a mother could you put your innocent child back into that situation? May she rest in peace, and may God give the poor family the strength she will need to get through this difficult time. I hope that all the people responsible for this horrible tragedy pay for their sins.

Posted by: anonymous Location: south bend on Dec 5, 2008 at 08:33 PM
I am a friend of the mother and I have to say that it is unfortuante that this happened to her sweet baby. We do not all know their personal lives but I do know that she is a great mother and our children have played together. Not everyone knows the power of a man who is abusive. Please pray for my friend and her family and the older brother who is missing his baby sister. God Bless

Posted by: Chuck on Dec 5, 2008 at 08:20 PM
This scumbag needs to sentenced to life in general population in prison. That would be the best punishment for him. Let the other prisoners dish out justice. As for the mother she'll have to live with the knowledge that she let her scumbag husband murder her child. IF SHE HAS ANY CONSCIENCE that should be punishment enough. Whether she has to live with that knowledge in or out of prison will be a matter for the courts to decide.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 07:52 PM
This poor poor baby. How can people do this to an innocent baby? I will hug my son extra tight tonight & say a prayer for this angel.

Posted by: Nancy Location: Granger on Dec 5, 2008 at 07:28 PM
That poor little baby,how can parents do such a thing.God I pray for your love and arms to surround her.God Bless the little Angel.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 07:23 PM
Makes me want to puke, poor baby, rotten terrible family...

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Elkhart on Dec 5, 2008 at 07:17 PM
After reading the police report, the mother is at fault just as much as the father. Any person that would stand by and even go as far as to LIE to cover for the person that is hurting their baby deserves to spend the rest of their life in prison and her 5yr old taken from her. There was a history of abuse on this child and she still decided to leave her baby with this man. So for all of you asking to pray for the poor mother who didn't know, she knew for TWO YEARS that monster was hurting her baby and she did NOTHING!!!! Both of them should fry for what they did to that little girl and please God get that little boy away from that woman and place him in to a loving home.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 5, 2008 at 06:27 PM
TO S Location: B on Dec 4, 2008 at 08:20 PM:: it's MORONS like you who help cause this kind of behavior. You probably beat your kids & wife too. Go crawl in a hole somewhere.

Posted by: Julie on Dec 5, 2008 at 06:25 PM
Indiana's child protective services at it's best... PATHETIC.

Posted by: Jason on Dec 5, 2008 at 06:04 PM
Send him back to back to Mexico. That is where they think this kind of thing is acceptable.

Posted by: mom Location: Goshen on Dec 5, 2008 at 06:02 PM
I am so filled with sorrow for this child, and after reading the charges and probable cause statements from the "Escobedo Charges" link above, I am horrified that it happened at all. It appears that most of her short life was filled with abuse. How could this continue with so many "caring" adults (especially the mom!) witnessing her many injuries. She should have NEVER been left with him! I DO agree with Steve from Granger and I'm so thank- ful I am not his judge.

Posted by: B Location: South Bend on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:44 PM
For all those who wanted to give this family the benefit of the doubt now you have prove that this was an ongoing situation. To mom's best friend I certainly hope you are no longer in social work since the children had been taken away for abuse and you saw no signs, I don't think that line of work is right for you. I would hope that even if the mother was being abused she would have tried to save her child especially since the system was already involved with them. To selfish I guess. Yes people we all need to pray, pray that our court systems will finally start punishing these people as murderers.

Posted by: Anon on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:33 PM
This poor baby had been in and out of the hospital for abuse. You mean to tell me that this mother never saw this? Give me a break. If he was abusive why did she not take her kids and leave? I would have in a heartbeat and I know there are places where these woman can go for help. And to her best friend Anonymous you were a Social Worker and you never saw any of this? Thank the Lord you are out of it because I would not want you to help me protect my kids. I have no sympathy for these parent my sympathy goes out to the rest of the family and now this poor little baby may be able to RIP. I am so sorry and sad this had to happen to such an innocent little girl. RIP little one!

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:19 PM
dirtbags

Posted by: ANON... on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:18 PM
Rest in Peace little Angel you are Now in heaven where you never have to worry about anyone hurting you ever again...

Posted by: Ash Location: Mishawaka on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:16 PM
For those of you wanting facts...maybe you should read the affidavit at the top of this page.....then maybe you'll think twice about defending either parent

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:06 PM
"For all of you that are writting stuped things". You don't know him you don't know anything about his life do you thing that you know him just because you read a cuple lines so please stop, he didn't did anithing to the baby I write this becauses I know him my entire life he is a good men and he love his family he didn't abuse his baby you people don't know nothing and for the people who said that was the third time abused by him please you don't know nothing don't said things the you don't know you are noting and stop to writting shit because I know this family because is my family he is my brother and this hurt me and you don't have idea how much.how do you said the six months ago she was returned from CPS The last christmas she was with us so please

Posted by: Chaz Location: South Bend on Dec 5, 2008 at 04:45 PM
Anonymous, that's certainly not very Christlike.

Posted by: Bryan Location: Argos on Dec 5, 2008 at 04:17 PM
Why is it when a parent does this to there own child its neglect and not "Murder" is this something in our laws that we need to change or is our prosecuting attorney just worthless

Posted by: McKenzie Location: Eau Claire MI on Dec 5, 2008 at 04:17 PM
I agree with anonymous in Elkhart,may he AND his wife rot in Hell,she KNEW what happened and did absolutely NOTHING! Murder is murder,whether you watch it or hear it,your still an accesory to murder!

Posted by: chris Location: rochester on Dec 5, 2008 at 04:01 PM
hang the butthead!!!! how could anyone do that to there child if you get upset just walk away. Its easy just put one foot infront of the other

Posted by: Bill Location: Osceola on Dec 5, 2008 at 03:56 PM
He should have stayed in Mexico..

Posted by: Willma Location: Lakeville on Dec 5, 2008 at 03:54 PM
Odds that drug abuse was taking place in this home are around 99.9999%.

Posted by: tammy Location: shelbyville on Dec 5, 2008 at 03:50 PM
i want all of those passing judgement of my poor nieces father need to shut their mouths and people saying this is the third offense are also wrong the parents have never been convicted of any thing more than loving thier children i know him and i just cant say he would ever hurt his precious child he has never as much as even yelled at either of them so before you place blame you need to get your facts straight we the family are grieving and you out there casting judgement are just making it worse and there isnt a warrant out for my sisters arrest she wasnt even in the home when the injury took place or accident we dont know what i do know is my poor little niece is with god in heaven and he is rocking her and loving her and she will forever rest in peace so to the anomymous who is afraid to say your name shut the hell up you dont know anything

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Elkhart on Dec 5, 2008 at 02:37 PM
Poor baby! May she rest in peace. As for the father- may he rot in HELL!

Posted by: Joyce Location: Benton Harbor on Dec 5, 2008 at 12:10 PM
Perspective-I have adult kids and they have fallen upstairs and downstairs and off slides.Kids are clumsy and daring but most do not not end up brain dead.Stiches and broken bones are accidents, brain swelling injuries that cause death are no accident.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 5, 2008 at 11:24 AM
This is the third time this father has abused this child. She was only returned from CPS to her family six months ago. She was first abused by them in infancy. There's a lot more to this story. You should check into it.

Posted by: Mom Location: Mishawaka on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:46 AM
Why is everyone jumping on the mother? Sounds like she was working to keep food on the table for her children. Are all of you saying that mothers who leave their children in the care of their father are bad mothers? When my husband picks our daughter up from school and takes care of her for 2 hours everyday waiting for me to get home from work, does this make me a bad mother? Are you people for real?? If this guy is to blame for the horrific injuries this poor child endured, what makes people think the mother is to blame? What if he did it in an enraged state and has never displayed any anger or abuse previously? How would the mother know?? You people need to wait for the facts before writing your venom regarding the mother. My heart goes out to the family, I can't imagine for one minute what you're going thru. Please ignore the ignorance of some of the people here.

Posted by: Steve Location: Granger on Dec 5, 2008 at 10:13 AM
There are few challenges more difficult and unnatural than finding forgiveness and love for those that violate our sense of what is right and even human in some cases. Yet that is exactly what we are asked to do by God and what we were taught by His Son's example. There is a much bigger picture and if we think eternally and trust the Lord's sense of pure justice, we no longer have to carry these burdens - liberating us to focus on what WE can do. I am preaching to myself on this one, as I struggle to apply compassion where I feel it’s undeserved. But that makes me the judge, doesn’t it? And that’s the problem. My judgment is poor and corrupt compared to that of The Creator, and He’s made it clear that’s not my job. It only distracts me from the real work He has for me. They are mutually exclusive.

Posted by: Perspective Location: Here on Dec 5, 2008 at 08:07 AM
People, we do not know the facts yet. We do not know if the father beat the child or if he turned his back for a second and the child fell down a flight of stairs. This could be a simple horrific accident, a case of gross neglect, or abuse - we do not know. Everyone is passing judgement after reading six sentences about the story. The only thing we know is that a innocent child is gone and members of her fmaily are grieving. Let us all keep this in perspective.

Posted by: conrad on Dec 5, 2008 at 05:01 AM
Give me 5 minutes with this guy, wait I will only need 30 seconds. What a real man beating a 2 year old. Why? because she was crying? What ever the case I just want to be in a room for 30 seconds with him. If I had the chance 2 men would enter and only 1 would leave, ME. May God have mercy on him cuz I would not. For god skes she was 2. I pray for her and the family and those how know her. May God have a plae for you little one. God Bless.

Posted by: GK Location: Elkhart on Dec 5, 2008 at 02:10 AM
So I guess some people want to keep stories like this out of the news judging from their harsh responce to criticism of the "alleged" babykiller.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 08:22 PM
to n at 3:34 it sound like he is already brain dead

Posted by: S Location: B on Dec 4, 2008 at 08:20 PM
Wow. Do any of you KNOW this family? Were ANY of you there when it happened? Or are you just going to believe EVERYthing you hear or read? Let the family grieve in peace. This family has lost enough...now they have the community tearing them apart too?

Posted by: linda Location: warsaw area on Dec 4, 2008 at 07:29 PM
I hope the guy rots in prison! My nephew was murdered in Ft.Wayne in september 2008! My nephew was only 3 years old and he died on life support! He died from blunt force trauma!The guy that beat my nephew is in jail and hopefully he goes to prison soon!Baby killers dont last long in prison!The little girl is now in Heaven with my nephew neither one of them have to take anymore beatens! Its such a sad story to read innocent child has to die from a parent or boyfriend!Rest in peace little girl and my nephew Javon!

Posted by: JOHN Location: elkhart on Dec 4, 2008 at 07:03 PM
He such a monster he probably didn't want to have to buy Christmas Gifts for the little angel...He will pay!!God help the little ones

Posted by: jessica Location: elk on Dec 4, 2008 at 06:54 PM
Someone needs to shake his azz til he becomes brain dead!

Posted by: Angered Location: South Bend, IN on Dec 4, 2008 at 06:30 PM
Hope the inmates beat the living hell out of him until he dies of severe injuries! See ya in hell swine!

Posted by: Mother of 3 Location: Syracuse on Dec 4, 2008 at 06:15 PM
This is a very sad situation! Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of the little girl! I could not imagine the mother's pain - to lose a child and to find that her own husband, the child's father could be responsible for the loss! May God be with this family!

Posted by: Barbara Location: Soth Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 06:03 PM
Takes quite a man to beat a defenseless child. He isnt human, death penalty for him.

Posted by: Erik Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:43 PM
BREAKING NEWS: His DEFENSE is; He was drunk driving and killed the child. The non-elected Judge Chamblee will sentence him the same as the other KILLER: 2 years in prison, serve 1.

Posted by: Mary Location: Mish on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:42 PM
Guys & Gals he is innocent till proven otherwise. Just know that the law of cause & effect is strict and no judge or jury can change that. If he did brutally abuse hsi beautiful daughter he WILL pays dues for it, guaranteed.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:42 PM
Regarding 5:01 PM, I would not say her entire life is over. Their will be a grieving period and this will always be in her mind, but she has a 5 year old son too she has to take care of. Her life is definitely not over. This is a terrible tragedy, and this monster she choose to have children with will definitely get what is coming to him, given he is guilty. But you have to move on in life, life goes on. I'm friends with a family that was celebrating a wedding in a stretch limo, in which the limo was hit by a drunk driver head on, killing 5 people, including the 4 year old flower girl being decapitated, with her mother on the side of the road with her daughters head on her lap as rescue people arrived. Her mother is still grieving, but she has 4 other sons and daughter to take care off. Live goes on, her life is not over. Again, this may seem like a graphic story, but just trying to get a point that life goes on. Prayers to the family of that little girl.

Posted by: j Location: sb on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:32 PM
Heaven forbid any of your children fall down stairs and get hurt, or crash a bike and break a bone. Some of you really know how to cast the first stone. Let's wait till we hear more of the story before we hang the man. Anyway, I've seen more hate than anything in some of these posts lately...maybe you need to take a break from the news for a while. This is a sad story about a little baby that is now dead. Pray for the baby, its mother, the grandparents and even the father. This will be a horrible holiday season for them all whether it was an accident or something worse.

Posted by: Sad Parent Location: Warsaw on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:30 PM
I am so saddened by the pointing of fingers here.Holding mom and family up in prayer.God Bless this dear mom and her family...And "anonymous 5:01"-AMEN!I am so sick of all the finger pointing and speculations in the comments here and on some of the other posts.It seems many times that those that are posting are NOT really reading the posts of others when they are condemning that post's author.Again, God Bless this family and hold them in Your tender arms.

Posted by: Michelle Location: Michigan on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:28 PM
My heart goes out this this mom and her family. From one bereaved mother to another.

Posted by: BlameWhereItBelongs Location: Indiana on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:18 PM
All of you who are being negative towards the mother... Have you ever been in a domestic violence situation? Did you ever stop to think that maybe the mother was being abused as well? Maybe she was trying to get out? You need to either get involved in an education course involving what happens in domestic violence situations, or maybe get some empathy! People who are quick to blame the mother. How about putting the blame where it belongs?! The biggest players in this...judges and prosecutors. They are the ones who tell so many mothers that they dont have the right to keep abuser fathers away from their children. They always protect the "father's rights", but are rarely ever concerned with the CHILD'S rights to be safe. My daughter still has to go see my ex who injured her so severely that she was in a wheelchair for over 6 months. But the judge was too worried about my ex's rights. Not my daughter's. So the mother may very well not be to blame here. Pressure those judges!

Posted by: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 05:01 PM
The mother of this child is my best friend. I have spent many long hours with both her and the kids. I love her like my sister. I used to be in the social work field and even I did not suspect anything. Please stop writing hateful things. She is an amazing mother that works very long, hard hours to support her family. She is in pain and devestated. Her entire life is over. Everyone should be ashamed of themselves with the things that I am reading. I can't believe this website would even allow it. The homicide unit is still investingating and it is not known for sure if she was abused. Please stop writing things that are untrue and instead think about your own lives and what it would feel like to loose your own child. I have not stopped hugging my daughter for days. It is very easy to judge from the outside looking in, but believe me this is not black and white. Please just pray for the family and I will pray for all of you who are judging.

Posted by: tim Location: new buffalo on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:51 PM
this idiot should have never been around a child to begin with.Poor kid never did anything wrong.Maybe when he is in prison other inmates will give him some abuse when they find out what he is in for.

Posted by: Mom of Three on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:41 PM
Dear DirtBag Baby Killer, I would like to personally thelp you donate your organs. May you rot six feet under.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:30 PM
2 cent bullet to his head he doesn't deserve a trail or anything else

Posted by: Maureen Location: Osceola on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:29 PM
This scum should be beaten with a baseball bat until he's dead! Don't waste the taxpayers time or money on a trial or life in the prison system. He deserves to die a slow and painful death!

Posted by: Jenn Location: Elkhart on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:26 PM
This story has made me extremely sad. I really was hoping it would turn out to be an accident. Can anyone tell me what would posess someone to do this to a baby. I really can not comprehend it at all. I am sorry the child died, but she is no longer in an abusive household. God help us all!

Posted by: B Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:20 PM
Friend of the mother. How good of a friend could you have been, how often did you see this precious baby? Were you blind like everybody else, I'm pretty sure CPS has been involved with this family before. I guess you think people that hurt babies should get more than once chance, our CPS does. Well the parents and I say parents because there is no way the mom didn't know finally got what they wanted, the won't have the child anymore. For the people that feel sorrow for the mother just think how this small child felt and what went through her mind everytime her father hurt her. I promise you this was not the first time. Every person in this families life that choose to keep silent must live with their cowardness for the rest of their miserable life. Thankfully this child will not be hurt anymore.

Posted by: KF Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 04:09 PM
OH...TRUST ME! He WILL get what he deserves in prison. He may have to be put in solidtary or he'll be someone's B@T$H in just a couple hours after his arrival! Even most criminals in prison don't like people who "abuse," let alone murder a child! Good luck bubba and here's a piece of advice...don't turn your back on ANYONE when you get to prison!

Posted by: Dave Location: Goshen on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:57 PM
I can feel for the mother, but wonder why she might not have noticed, a violent trend in her husband? To JOE COLLEGE, What do you expect society to do, go into everyone's home? There are signs before this happens, let those who kept silent, now try to sleep at night. Of course this guy needs to be sentenced to the full amount the law will allow. How sad for the child. May God take her in.

Posted by: Penni Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:55 PM
This may be something you might not print but I believe this man should suffer for the rest of his young life I just cant image what a child does that would make a man or anyone do any harm to them I am tired of hearing these are abused kids if they were they should know what it is like and protect their children from it. Torture him for the rest of his life just like he done to that poor little girl.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:52 PM
I agree that if the father did it, the mother is probably a mess and I am sure she is in need of many prayers, BUT did the mother ever witness the father abusing the child? Did she ever take action? Was she afraid of the man? What did she do about the abuse if she did know?

Posted by: Father of 2 yr old Location: Elkhart on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:46 PM
Whata dirt bag...Lock him up and throw away the key. Hopefully he will get his in prison so we dont have to pay for him the rest of his life.

Posted by: N on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:34 PM
Guy looks like a real winner. Someone please beat him until he has brain damage. Its only fair.

Posted by: PJ Location: Goshen on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:31 PM
These morons who abuse their children need to suffer the same injuries as the child!

Posted by: bobbie Location: rochester on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:26 PM
hope the sob gets the same treatment in prison

Posted by: kc Location: northern IN on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:26 PM
what was going through this animals mind? had he ever shown anger towards the child before? if so, why was he left alone with the child. no i am not blaming the mother, i am just curious. the child had no way of defending herself. he deserves a life long prison sentence !! children are a gift from GOD. they are our future and without a child there is no love. i will be praying for this family that GOD may give them peace during this time of loss.. GOD BLESS

Posted by: ANON Location: In Here on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:26 PM
This man looks monsterous, looks like some1 I know even looks like a child molester.. With the system that we have here, more likely he'll be at Goodwill doing Community Service. He needs to get beat like he did to this angel and be a roomy to a rapist in prison. Many prayers go out to the family, with an exception of Mr. Valentin Escobedo....K te pudres, guey. (means rot in H3LL)

Posted by: ME Location: NILES, MICHIGAN on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:18 PM
You may not even print this but I feel compelled to at least write what I have to say. I was very young when my father would come home from work angry and look for me and rip off my clothes and beat me till I could not sit down and then the sexual abuse started at age 11 this was back in the 70's I am catholic and I went to our priest who put me in confessional for 2 hrs confessing that I lied. People say they want to help these kids well where were they when I needed help. Even my teachers never questioned why I could not sit in my chair. I have 2 daughters now and neither of them have ever seen this man and they never will and they are 28/25 he took away something that belong to me which I had a right to my child hood and I will never get that back. But I am living my life with the help of therapy I will one day be a better person. The hate I feel for him will be gone. If you feel disguss help a child who needs it stop the abuse a child cannot do it alone and our judges do not help.

Posted by: Kay Location: South Bend on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:14 PM
Dear "Friend of the mother", I want to feel mercy for her, but where was she? How could she not see her child was in harms way. Turning away and not facing the truth/ protecting your child is a form of neglect. Bless this baby. May she find peace in heaven since she did not have it on earth.

Posted by: Sandy Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:12 PM
I hope that this man is abused and beaten to death in prison for what he has done. What could a little 2 year old possibly have done to deserve being murdered like this. She has suffered enough and now her family has to suffer through a lot more. God Bless the family for donating her organs to another. Perhaps this will help in their healing process. I know it did when I lost my fiance in 2002. I know in my heart that several people live on because of his death.

Posted by: steve on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:12 PM
They should donate his organs too!!!

Posted by: BN Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:11 PM
This guy better get a lot more time than the two they just caught with the mobile meth lab. Both are bad crimes but this guy should never get out of prison. I hope that you're wrong Josh.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:10 PM
this is so sad i dont see why anyone would hurt a child.

Posted by: Joe College Location: Notre Dame on Dec 4, 2008 at 03:05 PM
We're always quick to condemn these terrible acts of violence, but where are we as a community when it comes to preventing these sorts of tragedies? Why do we always get worked up when it's too late? At least this poor child's organs can help save some other lives.

Posted by: Auntie H. Location: Plymouth on Dec 4, 2008 at 02:54 PM
my blood is boiling. scum like this should be put in the roughest prison with their hands tied behind their backs (so they are defensless) and abused the same way! I am so sick of hearing about these poor babies murdered and abused by their own parents.

Posted by: DJ Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 02:52 PM
Anonymous, I will pray for strength, peace and calm for the family. God Bless them all

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 01:19 PM
This is my friend and i know she is a great mother and she needs as many prayers as she can get. Please, keep her and her family in your hearts and prayers. I am not sure what is going to happen to her husband now and I don't know if she does and is ready to know. Please, be kind to the mother as this is not her fault and everyone should just worry and PRAY!!! PRAY for this faimly it is now in GOD's hands only.

Posted by: Anonymous on Dec 4, 2008 at 09:59 AM
I am curious to know where the mother was at the time??? And if this is a boyfriend or husband.

Posted by: Josh on Dec 4, 2008 at 09:44 AM
In this County he'll get 10 years probation and have to serve 500 hours of community service working for a day care!! VERY SAD!

Posted by: Sickened Mother Location: Mishawaka on Dec 4, 2008 at 09:02 AM
This article should say "abusing" or "beating" or "injuring", not "neglecting"! This man is a monster! Hope this poor little girl makes it without lifeling disabilities or worse!

Posted by: Angered on Dec 4, 2008 at 08:30 AM
They need to see to it that men like this are not able to father any more children....or keep them away from small children!

Posted by: Homer Location: Up here on Dec 4, 2008 at 08:05 AM
He's in the running for Father of the Year award.

Posted by: Chrys on Dec 4, 2008 at 07:50 AM
This just makes me sick to my stomach. I will never understand how anyone could harm such a small innocent child. What could a child of this age possibly do to make someone so angry? NOTHING!! This person deserves to spend the rest of his life behind bars.