Fatal Mishawaka crash caused by drunk driver

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Posted: 8:32 AM Aug 16, 2008
Last Updated: 1:48 AM Aug 17, 2008

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Police say a drunk driver killed a 60-year-old Mishawaka woman and seriously injured her husband.

The crash happened just after 7:00 Saturday morning on Lincolnway East near Oakside in Mishawaka.

Police say the intoxicated man's Cobalt drifted across the center line and smashed into a 1964 Corvair.

The impact crumpled one side of the classic car and killed passenger Carol Ragsdale.

"I just heard a loud pop and glass hit my windshield, and part of the car came flying across in front of the road. Basically, it just happened right in front of me," explained Roger Spier.

Derek Dygulski of South Bend was arrested and booked into the Saint Joseph County Jail Saturday afternoon.

He faces one charge of operating while intoxicated causing death, and one charge of operating while intoxicated causing serious bodily injury.

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Posted by: tanyaa Location: uk on Sep 16, 2008 at 10:08 PM
What the hell was Pete Coors, brewery executive, thinking? Typical apology from someone that preached responsibility. A slap on the hand amounted to minimal community service and payment of court fees came from a sympathetic judge, you lucked out Pete. ------------ Tanyaa California Dui

Posted by: angelinjones Location: cummings on Sep 11, 2008 at 04:28 AM
Put yourself in the police officers shoes for a week and see how you feel about the selfish family who try and make one persons life miserable because they're son was shot for trying to kill an officer. POlice officers hvae familys too and put they're lives on the line to save yours! ===================== Angelinjones

Posted by: STEPHANIE Location: MORGANTON NC on Aug 27, 2008 at 12:49 PM
TO ANONYMOUS ON AUG 26, 2008 AT 09:54 AM....AMEN.

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 26, 2008 at 10:54 AM
Well, I must say if it was my child or family that was killed I would not say we all make mistakes, ect. I would want an eye for an eye and most of you out there that say he is a good person I believe you. Try telling the victims children that though. Put yourself in their shoes as well. The worse part this could all be avoided. As an adult you have the right to make choices, if you don't make the right choice there is consiquences and he should pay dearly. He just tore a family into shreds, nothing will ever be the same. I don't think he is a bad person, and I hope he learned from this. Be a speaker about how it changed his life and others to keep this from happening to someone else. I pray for all involved. I pray your strong during this time in your lives.

Posted by: anonymous Location: south bend on Aug 26, 2008 at 07:06 AM
This comment area needs spell check. After reading several comments on different stories this morning, this is the conclusion I have come to. Who wants to read a comment and try and decipher what one is trying to say?

Posted by: anonymous Location: mishawaka on Aug 25, 2008 at 07:01 PM
To anonymous from south bend posted on Aug. 25 at 12:55! I've been wondering the same thing!!!!! Known her for along time, she'll never change.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Aug 25, 2008 at 12:55 PM
I wonder if Heather will think twice now before SHE drinks and drives?

Posted by: Doc Ock on Aug 24, 2008 at 09:09 AM
The problem is, there are some people who can drive competently after a few drinks. At least, there are people who do it all the time and don't get caught. I see them all the time rolling up near my Indian Springs apartment getting out of their car clutching their beer can... and you know how the human ego works; no one wants to be told THEY are one of the ones who can't drive after a few drinks. So, the ones who can't drive competently after a few drinks get behind the wheel. It's the same way with drinking in general. Some people can drink and still be ok to be around. Some people can't and just shouldn't drink. But, you can't tell people that THEY are one of the ones who can't handle their booze. The ego won't hear of it. So, people who shouldn't drink do anyway, no matter how often they end up making a fool of themselves. The ego finds a way to rationalize it away.

Posted by: J on Aug 23, 2008 at 11:10 PM
I do not know either family, but I do know if a drunk driver killed my family member I would be angry and upset. I also know, that if my family member was drunk and killed someone I would still love them. You never stop loving your family or good friends. I myself take the responsibility to never drive even if I have one drink, but after drinking the mind, as you know, is not thinking like it should and it clouds your thoughts. So before drinking make sure you have someone sober to take you home.

Posted by: Dave stevens Location: Elkhart on Aug 23, 2008 at 03:44 PM
I can not believe people are commenting on the safety of the Ragsdales's car. If they had been driving an old Honda civic what then? They were struck head on by a drunk driver! The drunk driver may be a great guy but his mistake was not a fender bender. His mistake took an innocent life of a woman who has many friends that will tell you what an incredible person she was. You can blame anything you want but lets be real, a drunk driver went head on into there car at 7AM

Posted by: J Phillips Location: Granger on Aug 23, 2008 at 12:52 AM
I keep hearing it was a bad mistake from a good person. It was a mistake that took a life. Where were all these good friends at that were drinking with him that night? Did some of them drive home drunk also? Good thing they didnt make a "mistake" and take somebodys life.

Posted by: Dennis Location: Austin on Aug 22, 2008 at 11:07 PM
Dear Conrad: True, VW and several others make a rear engined car but the Corvair had several significant design flaws from the beginning. The early VW's also had issues with the gas tank being in front of the occupant compartment and not protected very well but that was remedied. Nothing said in these comments will change what happened. Mrs. Ragsdale is deceased, Mr. Ragsdale is suffering, and the families/friends of all involved are hurting. But through it all, life goes on for us, the commentators, judging as we go. No matter what we think or what the evidence is, Derek will get his day in court and justice will prevail. We are all going to be judged someday, hope we are all up to it.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: south bend on Aug 22, 2008 at 06:16 PM
could wndu please, print what this guy will be charged with.DWI,reckless driving,causing a death while intoxicated,or just a slap on the wrist??

Posted by: Deb on Aug 22, 2008 at 05:43 PM
The so called friends of Derek that are defending him, I have to ask where were you when he picked up the keys to drive after his drinking binge. Maybe you should be in trouble too for allowing him to get in his car. I highly doubt that he was drinking alone allllll night!! I sure hope he has better friends than that!

Posted by: STEPHANIE WARDLOW Location: NC on Aug 22, 2008 at 04:50 PM
TO CAROLYN, YOUR RIGHT GOD IS THE JUDGE, NOT YOU. AND I DO HAVE RELIGION FOR YOUR INFORMATION, AND IT TEACHES ME TO FORGIVE. WHAT A CONCEPT! AND IT TEACHES ME TO LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES, WHICH IM SURE DEREK HAS. AND IT TEACHES ME TO EMBRACE MY BROTHER, WHICH I WILL DO. IM SORRY THIS WHOLE THING HAD TO HAPPEN TO ANYONE, BUT IT DID. AND WISHING BAD THINGS ON DEREK ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE THAT. HE HAS TO LIVE WITH HIS ACTIONS FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. AND TO DAVE A MISTAKE IS; an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, insufficient knowledge, etc. YOU HAVE A DICTIONARY ON YOUR COMPUTER, TRY USING IT. IM NOT TRYING TO BE HATEFUL, JUST HONEST. YOU SEE HIM FOR ONE THING THAT HAPPENED IN HIS LIFE, WE SEE ALL THE REST, AND YOU KNOW WHAT, WE ARE THE BETTER FOR IT BECAUSE HE'S A GREAT PERSON, NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS. PERIOD.

Posted by: ME Location: SOUTH BEND on Aug 22, 2008 at 03:28 PM
I have made plenty of mistakes but never one that cost the life of another human being. I never got so drunk that I had no idea as to what day/time/ or where I was. But Derek did. I am sure that sober he maybe a good guy but this time he was not. I feel sorry for him because now he has to live the rest of his life knowing his very very poor judgement took this woman's life and left her husband fighting for his life her grandkids will never see her again all in blink of an eye. That is what makes me MADD. Those of you who are his close friends cannot even see this and that is very sad you would rather feel sorry for poor Derek then this family that did not ask for this. I will pray for each of you because God will judge you to just like Derek. God bless again to this poor family and I only hope one day you can smile again after a this awful accident that did not have to happen. My prayers are with your kids who will never know her love but know her as there guardian angel now!!!

Posted by: what if Location: South bend on Aug 22, 2008 at 02:04 PM
To all of you that are Dereks friends I have just 1 question for you. What if it was your family that he hit? Would you still be defending him? I have lost someone very close to me by a drunk driver. Im not saying through him in jail and through away the key, but I just hope that this unfortunate accident opens peoples eyes. God bless all that were involved.

Posted by: Dave Location: Mishawaka on Aug 22, 2008 at 11:18 AM
Truth hurts, huh? Boy you have a low bar for what makes a " good " person. Of course I would expect nothing less from a bunch of drunks closing ranks around one of their own. EVERYONE has been in trouble at one time or another, friend. The difference is this guy isn't a teenager who didn't know any better, he didn't blow a tire or have his brakes fail. he came across the center line on a 5 LANE HIGHWAY after a bender that lasted 'til 7 am!! And to be truthful, if I were to do something so selfish, foolish, arrogant and STUPID I wouldn't want my friends defending me. I would man up, make no excuses,and not have my friends tell people how "good" I am. HOW PRETENTIOUS!! By your definition what is a " bad " person? How many more people will he have to kill before he becomes "bad" ? 5, 10, 20? Or will he always be "good" to you because he is a drunk JUST LIKE YOU and looking at him is like looking in a mirror? Keep tippin' em up all night long, loser.I'm sure Ken Ragsdale won't mind, huh?

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 22, 2008 at 09:50 AM
He will whyne, cry, go to rehab and get away with murder. Just like the majority.

Posted by: Th Location: IN on Aug 22, 2008 at 02:26 AM
TO all you people who are so perfect and never done anything wrong in your life good for you but stop bashing someone you know nothing about, My heart goes out to the ragddales and if Mrs. Ragsdale is the kind of person you all say she is then i just bet ya she's already forgiven Derek

Posted by: ND Fan Location: ND on Aug 21, 2008 at 10:26 PM
To DAVE....Do you feel better after a rant like that? We as friends of Derek's can defend him, he is a good person. As far as is he is half the man.....I don't you he needs your advice on what to do in the court room. You better hope you never get in trouble yourself - maybe your punishment could be the electric chair or beheading!! What an idiot comment from you Dave. And for the record he is NOT an animal, thank you, he is a human being that had a really bad mistake. Not PREMEDITATED. I am sure you are just a perfect person. Go jump of the Sears tower dude.

Posted by: Dave Location: Mishawaka on Aug 21, 2008 at 03:27 PM
I am sick and tired of people calling this a "MISTAKE". A mistake is something that happens when you are trying your best to do the right thing and the wrong thing happens. This was a PRE-MEDITATED ACT OF NEGLIGENCE on his part. What if someone decide to walk outside and start shooting geese in the middle of Mishawaka with a rifle and " accidentally " killed someone and maimed another? Sure they were TRYING to kill geese but in an act of ILLEGAL STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE they killed someone. Same applies here. Voluntary, knowingly Illegal activity resulting in the death of another is NOT a " MISTAKE " it is A CRIME. Stop defending him. IF he's half the man you say he is he should walk into that courtroom and plead guilty/no contest and take his punishment silently and reverently thanking his lucky stars that we no longer use beheading or the electric chair to exact justice on animals like him.

Posted by: Carolyn Location: NIles,Michigan on Aug 21, 2008 at 02:58 PM
Back in 1976 my husband and I lost a very good friend becuz he decieded to drink and drive. Do I feel sorry for Derek. No I do not. He made he choice when he picked up those keys got in that car a hit and killed Carol Ragsdale who will never see her kids/husband/grandkids again. That is who is feel sorry for. Call it a wrong choice I do not care. But you will never get me to feel sorry for him this womans husband is fighting for his life. Derek is out walking the streets going on with his life. A JUDGE wil probably give him a slap on wrist and say be on your way . And in the meantime the Ragsdale grieve. So Stephanie get some religion and see who really is hurting here it is the family that Derek hurt in a blink of an eye. He had a choice Carol did not . God bless to the Ragsdale family my thoughts and prayers are with you all. To Derek look at this car on a daily basis and remember what you did to this poor family and ask God to spare you he is the one who will judge.

Posted by: STEPHANIE WARDLOW Location: MORGANTON, NC on Aug 21, 2008 at 02:25 PM
I JUST WANTED TO SAY TO ALL OF YOU WHO ARE JUDGING DEREK RIGHT NOW, JUST REMEMBER THE WAY YOUR ACTING TOWARD HIM WHEN YOU MAKE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE AND PEOPLE TREAT YOU THE WAY YOUR TREATING HIM. I HAVE THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING DEREK AND THERE ISN'T ANYTHING THAT ANYONE CAN DO OR SAY TO MAKE HIM FEEL WORSE THEN HE ALREADY DOES, I'M SURE. IT REALLY SADDENS ME TO SEE SO MANY SELF RIGHTIOUS HIPACRITICAL JUDGEMENTAL PEOPLE, WHO ARE ALL READY TO JUMP IN THE POT AND SPOUT OFF AT THE MOUTH WHEN YOUR AS BAD AS THE NEXT PERSON. WOW! I WISH I WAS PREFECT LIKE ALL OF YOU...NOT! DEREK, I’M BEHIND YOU MAN, STAND TALL, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND ALL INVOLVED.

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Posted by: a friend Location: south bend on Aug 21, 2008 at 01:42 PM
LIFE is about making choices everyday.Can everybody look into the future and see if our choices were right.I am a mother of two and if that happened to my loved one, Id want the worst punishment possible.That was untill this event took place.Friends and family have been asked where were we and to put our loved ones in their place. I have been best friends with derek for more than 20yrs, and I am here to say we are not making excuses nor do we think he should not have to pay for his action.we are devasted that a loved one has lost their life. But I can only reply and say Derek lived his days honest and loving to his friends and family never partied till wee hours of the morning or sat on a barstool after work. he spent his days working and building on cars and spending time with family and friends. We understand that he got in that car that morning but his friends and family know it wasnt his character to due so. I can only blame the effects of alcohol and teach my children the dangers.

Posted by: conrad Location: south bend on Aug 21, 2008 at 03:30 AM
So dennis. You are an IDIOT! I bet you believe everything you read dont you. VW has been making rear engine cars for over 50 years, Porshe the same, and Ferrari close to 55years. So those cars are unsafe and should e trailered too? That is the best part of being in the classic car, the driving. Show off what you have rebuilt and restored. What would have happend if he would have hit and killed a family going to church in there mini van. I have seen worse accidents in newer modern cars with airbags and all the "Saftey" items. So all I ask is that Derek gets his fare judgement and that this wakes up people to think before they drive under the influnce. I also hope that the ragsdale find peace and closer in there time of need. Remember we all make mistakes.

Posted by: Bob Vukas Location: Topeka, KS on Aug 20, 2008 at 09:02 PM
Please report your stories with accuracy. A woman died and her husband was injured due to a drunk driver who walked away. Focus on the people. Bashing the classic car incorrectly in your story is wrong. Corvairs were vindicated in 1972. Retractions seldom overcome headlines that are later proved false. Please keep telling the human side of this story so your readers may be properly informed.

Posted by: friend of Dereks on Aug 20, 2008 at 08:22 PM
noone is making excuses for Dereks actions but in his defense we all try to remain strong and deal with it the best way we know how nobody wants this to happen to anyone on both aspects of the situation and we were unfortunate never to know the Ragsdale family but did know the Dygulski family and for them we remain close I spoke with Derek on August 19 and my best friend was lost for words praying to make this go away and he knows he can't but that wont take away memories we will always share we need to focus on both families and be here for them both all judgement set aside only God can be the judge in the end

Posted by: FYI Location: Mishawaka on Aug 20, 2008 at 06:00 PM
I have been reading all these comments, and I have to add one. I have seen this car(colbalt) traveling down Lincolnway many times well over the speed limit. Right in front of the Twin Branch school no less. Driving recklessly, and taking chances. Take that for what it is worth.

Posted by: not tellin Location: granger on Aug 20, 2008 at 03:15 PM
bottom line-everyone makes mistakes. derek made a huge mistake, we have all made mistakes and we all have regrets. what happened is tragic and my heart goes out the the ragsdale family. however, all that any of us can do is learn from derek's mistake and move forward. please keep the ragsdale family and derek in your thoughts and prayers. use this as a learning tool for your children to show them how serious drinking and driving is.

Posted by: Lisa Location: Mishawaka on Aug 20, 2008 at 12:32 AM
Please, let's pay attention to what is going on around us. Lowering the drinking age would be a major mistake. Less experienced drivers, driving drunk would only make things worse.

Posted by: Dennis Location: Austin on Aug 19, 2008 at 09:44 PM
Derek screwed up and his actions resulted in a death and a critical injury. It must have been a great party that he was at for whomever he was with to even let him drive at all. The Corvair crumpled like a Dr. Pepper can upon impact and would have done so even if the oncoming car was driven by a Minister on his way to Sunday service at the Granger Churh. Plain and simple, the car is unsafe. My condolences to all, no one deserves to die like this, better to pass in ones sleep. All of our concerns and comments won't change the outcome, wish it would. As we read about the tragedies on this site and the other news sites, I wish we would somehow find out what happens to the survivor. But that is probably a matter of family privacy. Shame though that after the news event passes, so does the memory.

Posted by: Debbie Location: California on Aug 19, 2008 at 04:56 PM
Heather, Kim & Jennifer-My heart and prayers go out to each of you and your Dad. Your mother was amazing and will be forever remembered. Your Cousin Debbie

Posted by: Ad See-er Location: South bend on Aug 19, 2008 at 12:31 PM
Anonymous at 9:38-I saw the Bud Light Lime ad on Aug 19@ approx 12:26pm. It was right above the Olympic Zone and under the 5 day forcast on the right hand side of this page. So, it's being advertised on line. Anyway...who cares?? WNDU did not intentionally put it there to add salt to an open wound, Anonymous @ 12:20am. Let's pray for the Ragsdale family instead of scrutinizing a website.

Posted by: Lisa W. Location: North Liberty on Aug 19, 2008 at 10:28 AM
To all of Derek's supporters who say "this isnt him, he's a great guy, dont judge him"... All I have to say to those comments is Guess What.... IT WAS HIM, HE WAS THE ONE WHO KILLED SOMEONE'S MOTHER! Im sorry but the people on this site are raging about his actions not who he is. Because frankly noone who knows and loves the Ragsdales cares who he is, if hes nice or what kind of loss he has suffered. All they are concerned about are the actions of that horrible day. When he knowingly "pulled the trigger of a loaded weapon"(drove drunk)that killed a human being and seriously injured another. We as a society have and will always judge others by their actions. the old saying actions speak louder than words. Well his actions have spoken as to what kind of person his is. A careless killer.

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 19, 2008 at 09:38 AM
Not sure what you're seeing Anonymous @ 12:20 AM, but it's against federal law to advertise for alcoholic beverages online. Methinks someone is trolling. And I don't see any ads "sponsoring" this page.

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 19, 2008 at 01:20 AM
I think it's in poor taste they have a Bud Lite Lime ad sponsoring this page.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Mishawaka on Aug 19, 2008 at 12:56 AM
I read this article because I know the family and feel horrible for them but I can guess you are someone that works for madd to suggest someone with 11-12 DUI's is not in prison haha.

Posted by: Nick Location: South Bend on Aug 19, 2008 at 12:35 AM
It's amazing that in my 25 years, I've never been a drunk driver. I don't mean that I've never been caught. I mean I've never done it. Beyond this, I've never had a drink of alcohol. Sound crazy? Read on... So do I have fun? You bet! The best part is that I don't have to live down some embarrassing thing that I did that I can't seem to remember because of a drunken stupor. How can I relax without alcohol? Simple really, I read a book. Take a slow country drive. Play the piano. Now here's a real question for you...why do people still drive drunk? The only logical answer is that the penalties are not still enough. Liberty without law is anarchy. We have to step this up a few notches. It's time to get Drunk Driving under control, before another family is affected.

Posted by: Andrew Hoof Location: Austin, TX on Aug 19, 2008 at 12:10 AM
I can't belive this is happening to us.. (Heather)I'll be home as soon as i can, Stay strong.. Your mother is a beautiful person and always will be and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Andy Hoof

Posted by: DAVE Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:50 PM
Lets be clear here. Most folks who go out after work and have a few beers have no problem driving home without maiming and killing people. Don't lump this piece of trash Dygulski in with the rest of the responsible folks of Michiana. He's a special breed of worthless that we need to work tirelessly to remove from society. Alcohol doesn't drink itself and the car was perfectly fine and functioning in 1964 just as it was that morning. The difference is back then people respected and loved their neighbors guys like that dis-appeared and weren't heard from again.

Posted by: A Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:14 PM
it isnt the police that is the problem... they keep their eyes open for them and they do their part in arresting them... the problem is with the lawyers finding any itty bitty so called excuse to get them off of serious time and worse yet are the courts, ultimately the laws... there must be serious punishment handed out right from the get go... until this happens the police are just wasting their time... too many drunks/impaired drivers are getting their wrists barely slapped and just getting so called 'time served' and suspended sentences... it is total b.s.... having a drivers license that is suspended does nothing, they drive without it... unless the police see them committing a violation there is nothing that can be done about it... too many drivers, still driving impaired without their licenses...

Posted by: Carrie Location: Indiana on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:55 PM
To Dennis of Austin,MN.What a jerk thing to say!Ralph Naders book referred to suspension and handling problems due to the weight of the motor on the rear tires.The suspension couldn't handle the weight when two or people were in the car.Safe tire pressure was compromised and made the car harder to handle.At higher speeds the bouncing motor weight could have caused it to "tuck under" and cause a wreck.That had nothing to do with "structural devises to protect the occupants" as you said.But this problem was fixed by 1964.Wasn't an issue with the Ragsdales car being a 1964.It wouldn't apply here anyway since they were hit in the front by a DRUNK DRIVER!Newer cars can be "unsafe".Airbags or not.Should all cars be trailer queens or just classic cars, Dennis?You are a jerk!Saying this car should not have been in operation is implying the Ragsdales did something wrong!THEY DID NOT!So Dennis,shut your pie hole!Nobody wants "your opinion"!My deepest sympathy to the Ragsdale family.

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:51 PM
To Dennis from Austin,MN.What a jerk thing to say!Maybe you should learn to read. Ralph N

Posted by: Angel Location: elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:50 PM
For one ive only know derek a few years now.But he's a amazing guy kind and caring,People make mistakes and i bet 90% of you posting these hateful death comments have once er twice in ur life drove home drunk so who are you to judge on what you yourself have done?I lost my bestfriend almost 4 years ago from a drunk driver who hit her and 3 of our other friends But not once did i ever say the person needs to die.Only god can judge so you people claiming ur christian need to rethink what you are saying.Im sorry to the family who has lost there loved ones.He deserves to be punished and he will be HERe and when he's time infront of god comes.another thing is i cant believe this station is letting this kinda hate mail be posted...

Posted by: . on Aug 18, 2008 at 07:55 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to both the Ragsdale and Dygulski families. Both will be forever changed for drastically different reasons arising from the same situation. They will all face serious difficulties, needing supportive friends and families more than any of us could imagine in the coming weeks and months.

Posted by: Jason Location: Elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 06:08 PM
So far i have read all the comments and hatefullness that many of you have showed towards Derek and his choices. I myself am a friend of Dereks. NO i dont think his actions are right and NO he had no business driving at 7am after he had been drinking. All of us have made dumb decisions after we have been drinking. Some more severe than others. I cant even begin to imagine what Derek is goin through. Derek hates to cause harm to anyone. He wont even go fishing because he doesnt wanna kill a fish, let alone cause harm to a human being. The man is NOT a hatefull person nor is he a habitual offender. Now i know people will say how can you compare human life to a fish, but everything has a life not jus humans and im trying to get across that he hated to hurt anything or anyone. Now his actions were idiodic and stupid, but had this been you what would you have done?

Posted by: aaron Location: mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:57 PM
this is indeed another tragic story about dui and then fatal consequences. best wishes to the Ragsdale family for rememberance of their important loss. driver you made the mistake of getting behind that wheel and causing damage to others, but i can not cast a stone on you and tell you i am perfect! i have had my party days and then realized this might hurt or destroy the lives of others, words are nothing and i hope in your mind and and all the other people on this forum will realize that all talk and no action is going to be dominant unless we get the message out that dui is not acceptable. this dui law also applies to you individuals who smoke pot, take prescription drugs and then get behind the wheel, alcohol is not the only poison running rampant these days!!! best wishes for all human beings involved

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Lexington, KY on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:34 PM
Is it just me, or do people that habitually choose to drink and drive rarely get caught or involved in something like this. Yet those that normally don't partake in drinking then driving but just made that one wrong decision are usually the ones that feel the effects of that decision right away by means of an accident or something.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:31 PM
He (Derek Dygulski) will be out in 5 years and do it again??

Posted by: Anonymous Location: osceola on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:16 PM
i don't know how much police are actually cracking down on drunk drivers. not really all that much from what i can see. my granddaughters dad has 11 to 12 dui's, the most recent being earlier this year and he is now out of jail and free. two weeks ago, he was pulled over again, with a suspended license, drunk, again and was let go, once again. i guess he won't spend any amount of time in jail until he kills someone.

Posted by: Tina Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:15 PM
If you are adult enough to drink, then you should be adult enough for the harsh reality you chose to drive while drunk, you took a life, your life is no more valuable than theirs. I don't see how you could live with yourself after that anyway. "There but for the grace of God go I" ! I've been recovering for 11.5 yrs. I know I couldn't live with myself, and would expect a life sentence without parole if it were me.

Posted by: Mr g. Location: mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:09 PM
It's hard when your an alcholic to know when to drive or not , when your that drunk Mr. hide comes out He didnt know what was going on did'nt he make that comment? Booze is bad stay away sorry for your loss

Posted by: FBH Location: Mottville, MI. on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:07 PM
Yep POT is illegal… I think we need to stop naming “wars” and work on personal responsibility.

Posted by: Some Guy Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:06 PM
All my friends drink and drive. They just don't get caught or in an accident. They are not scared of any consequiences because they think they can beat the system. Park cops across from the bars and see how scared they will be.

Posted by: mark on Aug 18, 2008 at 04:57 PM
cell phone or not, he didnt even know where he was. 7 am and drunk? crossing the center line. he gets what he deserves. piont blank. as for the covair, itwould hae been perfectly safe except for a drunk rven head on collision. the car was not the problem here .......

Posted by: JJH Location: Granger on Aug 18, 2008 at 04:02 PM
I have read so many comments that call for the friends and family of Derek to put there parents or loved ones in the place of the Ragsdales. Then we will all feel the rage and disgust that they are expierencing. I might ask the same of you to put your son, brother, or close friend in Dereks position. Something tells me all of you would not be so vicious. Derek will go through his own personal hell for many years to come. He will not need the help of all the experts on morality to rush him there. Maybe we should concentrate on sending words of consolement and sympathy to the Ragsdale family, and ask God to forgive Derek for the horrible decision he made that morning.

Posted by: Dennis Location: Austin, MN on Aug 18, 2008 at 03:42 PM
True, the actions of the DWI driver should not be tolerated but look at the tragedy from another angle. The "Classic" car was a Corvair, a rear engined vehicle without air bags or even structural devices to protect the occupants, the "tuck under effect" in a crash. The drunk caused the crash no doubt, but maybe Ralph Nader was correct about the Corvair and we are just seeing the results happen again. The Corvair should not have been in operation. Sympathies to the Ragsdales, so sorry but in my opinion, the car should have been left in the garage and pulled to shows on a trailer.

Posted by: Craig Location: Bremen on Aug 18, 2008 at 03:38 PM
I just wanted to add that I have not tried to be judgmental of Dereks actions, but wish him well in dealing with the aftermath. Although he and his family are victims, I feel the sympathy for the Ragsdales takes precedence. They were truly innocent. One more thing...cell phone usage while driving can also be fatal, especially while texting. If we learn anything from all of this, I hope we all realize how a car can be a fatal weapon if we abuse our driving responsibilities.

Posted by: C Location: Elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 03:03 PM
God Bless the Ragsdale family as they begin to heal their wounds. Just get through the next minute, then the next hour, then the next day... and pretty soon you will begin to be able to live again. Your pain and anger will lessen as time really does heal all wounds. I hope you will find comfort in knowing that so many people -- some that you do not even know -- are praying for you.

Posted by: C Location: Elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:59 PM
I hope all of Derek's friends who are professing their total support and love to him now will be there when he is in prison.

Posted by: Jenn Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:37 PM
Drunk drivers are stupid and selfish. Apparently it is more important for them to have a good time than for some innocent person to live another day. I would lock him up and throw away the key. There's no excuse for this behavior. And any adult should know better. I would have fired and jailed Deb Daniels too. What an idiot.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:35 PM
A very sad story and a case of very bad choices. The youngman in the story will have to face this each day of his life. I hope others learn from his horrible mistake/ bad choice.

Posted by: mark moore Location: mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:29 PM
I would like to say i am so sorry for ken's loss of carol. I was the guy in the white jeep on my way to work, when i stopped to help ken out of the car and tryed my best to help carol, by placing several rags over her head to try and minimize the bleeding from her forhead. This was a terrible tragedy that couldve been avoided had "derek" been with people who couldve prevented him from driving. I will pray for you ALL and especially ken for losing his best-freind and a beautiful car.....god bless

Posted by: HEIDI Location: ELKHART on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:25 PM
TO THE REGASDALE FAMILY, I WORKED WITH CAROL AND SHE WAS THE BEST! ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS,GRANDKIDS, AND OF HER HUSBAND KENNY. I SO ENJOYED WORKING WITH HER. SHE WILL BE MISSED. I HAVE LOST 2 PEOPLE IN MY LIFE TO DRUNK DRIVING AND IT WILL BE REALLY TOUGH BUT YOU HAVE A CLOSE FAMILY AND YOU ALL WILL HELP EACH OTHER GET THROUGH THIS. ONE DAY AT A TIME. BLESS ALL OF YOU. HEIDI

Posted by: Charles Location: Berrien on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:12 PM
I do not know either family and from the comments both are great families. Sadly we have one person who did not think of the after affects of drinking, we have a man and wife who decided to drive their car. Sadly the person that did not care of the outcome of his drinking and getting in a car and driving is the one who caused the death of the other. Plain simple facts. DRINKING AND DRIVING CAN KILL. Stop with the oh he is a good kid. No one held him down and forced him to drink he did so by his own actions. I am sure he never intended to kill another but it happened. Just like others who drink and drive then get home safe and do it again and again. Sadly we have two families that will never be the same. Should he be held accoubtable YES, as should any driver that does not accept the responsibility that comes with driving. Too many today feel they are above the law and this is what happens. Wise up people if you are impaired by any substance stay off the roads.

Posted by: M Location: Edwardsburg on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:09 PM
All of you posting comments on here never drank & got behind the wheel, huh??? It is tradgic how people become critcal & place judgement of others actions when they were once spared. I do not condone Derek's actions and I do have simpathy for the tragedy that has happened to the Ragsdales. I have been on both ends of these types of situations and it is not fun. Truthfully, hatred is the only crime that is taking place on this blog. Think of the good times and the great memories & remember forgivness is is what will eat away at the guilty.

Posted by: THERESA Location: BRISTOL on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:52 PM
IM A FRIEND OF DEREKS AND IM NOT GOING TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR WHAT HE DID,YES HE HAD A CHOICE UNFORNATELY HE MADE THE WRONG ONE. IM SURE ALL YOU PEOPLE WHO ARE SLINGING MUD RIGHT NOW ARE PERFECT . MY HEART GOES OUT TO BOTH FAMILIES AND AS A FRIEND OF DEREKS I WILL STAND BY HIM NO MATTER WHAT THE OUTCOME.AND SO YOU KNOW IM NOT PERFECT I HAVE A BROTHER DOING 60 YEARS IN INDIANA STATE PRISON HE MADE THE WRONG CHHOICE TO BUT MY GOD FORGIVES ALL.

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Posted by: Gina Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:49 PM
God be with the Ragsdales at this difficult time. I went to school with Kim I believe and I grew up in Reverewood as well on Castine Walk. Iam so sorry for your loss. Please take care, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Posted by: Craig Location: Bremen on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:33 PM
Throughout the years there have been way too many of these stories for people to be ignorant of the consequences of drunk driving. It's hard to feel sorry for those that cause these tragedies. Derek may be a good person overall, but he has to deal with the aftermath. I do pray for him, as well as others who may read this story and have it influence them enough to NOT drink and drive in the future. My prayers also go to the Ragsdale family. I hope they somehow find the strength to overcome their loss.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:13 PM
While keeping the Ragsdale family in our prayers we should all thank God for looking over us when we have had a lapse in judgment. I'm sure many of the people who have posted comments have at some time made the same poor judgment and thought they were o.k. to drive. How many people do I see applying makeup or doing other things while driving. Or rushing to pass someone because they are running late. Is it worth risking others lives because you didn't get up on time? No, there is no excuse for what he has done and he will need to pay the price. It's just how quickly some people forget the chances they have taken when they are hurting or hurting for others. Let's just offer our prayers and support to those who need it and not act as though none of us have ever made a mistake. This was a mistake that never should have been made but just because people make other stupid mistakes that don't involve alcohol doesn't mean it's not just as dangerous

Posted by: Me Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 12:21 PM
People who have a "heart." Think about others on the road, he chose to drink and drive... "Monster" or not you are given choices in this life... he CHOSE to drink and drive. And therefore must pay the consequences for his actions. Millions of tragic stories from drunk driving and innocent people being killed... did he really think he wouldn't harm someone? Guess God proved him wrong. Toast to you Derek at 7:00 A.M.? Where was his friend telling his not to drive?

Posted by: Dave Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:51 AM
Oh Sure! Everyone who commits these heinous acts is "good at heart" or "not that kind of person" What a bunch of lame BS.I didn't know him and I'm glad I never will. If anyone ever deserved life in prison its this guy. Drunk Driving its the absolute epitome of selfishness and disregard for ones neighbors and community. Driving is a PRIVILEGE NOT A RIGHT! He will have the luxury of living the rest of his life while the Ragsdale family will endure having lost a beloved member of their family. Lock him up, throw away the key and forget him. He forfeited his rights to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness when he so carelessly and arrogantly took an innocent's life.

Posted by: Anti Drunk Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:29 AM
God be with the Ragsdales in this unbelievably difficult time. Friends of Derek: STOP making excuses. He had a choice. He may have lost a loved one, but if you are all so supportive and close to him, why was he finding comfort in booze at 7am instead of his friends and family? Heather certainly isn't going to go out drinking and driving and killing innocent people to heal her heart after her loss, so why do you make it sound like we should have compassion for the man who destroyed so many lives?? You're not going to get ANY sympathy out of those of us who know Heather and her family. Derek is sitting in a jail cell, but he's still alive and in a matter of time you'll be able to hug, talk to and see him. Sounds like a day at Disney compared to losing your mother, almost losing your father and having your and your life completely turned upside down. I wonder, if it were Carol who killed Derek by drinking and driving, would you still be so sympathetic toward the killer? I don't think so.

Posted by: 73 mustang Location: south bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:14 AM
my family has known ken and carol for many years at car shows and they have been the best to be around.we were at a car show on sat,when we all first heard about the accident.everyone stopped for a moment to wish the best for the Ragsdale family. Ken our prayers are with you. GOD BLESS..

Posted by: Linda Location: Granger on Aug 18, 2008 at 11:05 AM
When are people going to learn about drinking and then being stupid enough to get behind the wheel. Someone is gone forever now because of another persons stupidity. Seems pretty darn early in the A.M to be intoxicated. He must have been drinking all night. He should rot in prison.

Posted by: Davene Stoner Location: Elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 10:36 AM
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the Ragsdale family and their closest of friends; this is most definitely a tragic accident that has forever changed the lives of many. I would also like to offer my complete support to Derek and his family. I worked with Derek for a number of years and enjoyed his company immensely. Knowing the type of person he really is makes it that much harder to deal with and accept. He is a MUCH better person than what his actions displayed this past weekend. I do not condone his actions nor do I think that his actions should go unpunished. The Ragsdale family have the right to be angry and to vent; but they do not have the right to trash talk or judge Derek without even knowing him and the type of person he REALLY is!!! I would like BOTH families to know that they are in my thoughts and prayers at this unfortunate and tragic time of their lives...

Posted by: leslie Location: mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:59 AM
I WORKED WITH CAROL YEARS AGO,WE WOULD SIT DOWN AFTER A LONG NITE,AND TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING,SHE WAS MY ROCK THROUGH DFFICULT TIMES,WARM HEARTED,LOVING PERSON,I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU CAROL, YOU HAVE TOUCHED MANY LIVES MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY

Posted by: Brenda Tucker Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:34 AM
It is very sad to lose a loved one Because of a drunk driver... And is even sadder to survive a serious acc.and being left disabled.. As hard as it is to get the Goverments help for medical bills, My auto acc. was 25 years ago at age 19 I was thrown 190 feet from a car landing face down on curb, breaking and shattering every bone in face. In a coma 2 months, and disabled for life, imstill fighting to get medicaide which they put me on in beginning, but because of my father dieing 2 years ago and recieved a raise in my gov check they kicked me off the medical, They had no right to do that to me. Now I have doctors turning me away because of not enough insurance. And I have alot of medical issue's.. And Im sorry to her family to say this, But I feel she is better off where she is with God... Instead of fighting to get what she would have needed from the goverment for medical..May God be with her husband...

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Mish on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:16 AM
You DO NOT drink and drive...My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. Derek your drinking KILLED the lady, every day your life remember that!!!

Posted by: anonymous Location: osceola on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:14 AM
I am appalled at some of the commentary here--this should be a place to celebrate the life of a wonderful person and to support her family. Remember...family members are reading this also and no matter what any of us may think or want to say-a public posting board is NOT the place to wish terrible things on anyone. For the sake of both families, let's be considerate of everyone's feelings and stop posting unless you have kind words and support for someone. With the victim not even laid to rest, keep the hatred to yourself so that the families may be begin to heal. No one condones what this man did OF COURSE, but if you really have strong feelings about what his punishment should be, send them to your local judges and legislators, don't air them here to increase anyone's pain.

Posted by: friend of derek Location: south bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:14 AM
I have known Derek for several years. He is a good hearted person who made some bad choices, as so many of us has done. What he did was wrong and I am terribly sorry for the Ragsdale family. There are no excuses. However, Derek has family and friends who love him very much and who will always be there for him in times of need. I know Derek is deeply sorry for his actions and their consequences, he will live with this for the rest of his life. Derek deserves to be punished, but he is neither a monster nor an intentional murderer, he's only human. Be strong, Derek, we love you.

Posted by: Me on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:10 AM
My condolences to the Ragsdale Family...and the posts saying Derek isn't a drunk..blah blah blah...it doesnt matter...he still made that choice to get behind the wheel ....

Posted by: ed Location: elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 09:04 AM
E, your are correct that nothing will be the same for either family. Kenny Ragsdale will have to under go a lotof therapy not to mention how he will deal with losing his wife and partner of over 40 years who he depended on. Carol was the most kind, patient and loving person that I have ever met and worked with. She was extremely family oriented and she is what held the family together. She definitely will be missed by everyone who knew her. This is so tragic for all her family and friends. I hope that her family finds peace in knowing that Carol is with the LORD. This is definitely a life alternating event for both families and nothing will ever be the same...EVER.

Posted by: Lisa Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:51 AM
Heather, we are all thinking of you. I haven't seen you around much since we gratudated high school, but your mom & dad live behind my family in Reverewood. Please know that you & your family is in our thoughts & prayers. What a tragic loss.

Posted by: Amy Standridge Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:51 AM
I am so sorry to hear what has happened to the Ragsdale family. Heather I know no words can help at this time. Know that my family is thinking of you and praying for your dad to make a full recovery. You had a great mom I remember her.

Posted by: Debbie Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:51 AM
E on Aug. 17th. Are you joking? If Derek is not a "punk" then "drunk" would be the only adjitives that would apply to him being intoxicated on a Saturday morning morning at 7:00 AM He has a heart? or a drinking problem??

Posted by: Susannah Location: South Bend on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:21 AM
I don't think these people who are trying to put this drunk driver in a good light are succeeding. I wonder if they'd feel the same if it was their mother or father or child getting mowed down by this guy. I'm sorry, but there is NOTHING you can say about him now that can even bring him up the level of a decent human being. Most people that drive drunk are chronic offenders that never seem to care what they're doing may take someone else's life. I bet his blood alcohol level will be at least a .30.

Posted by: a Location: elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 06:27 AM
I have known Derek for almost 10 years and this is not him. People dont need to judge him without knowing him and without knowing the kind of person he is. I for one will stand behind him no matter what and be his friend, cause you cant turn your back on your friends.

Posted by: Charles Location: Berrien on Aug 18, 2008 at 05:26 AM
First of all I am very sorry that another human being lost her life due to the actions of another. This was no accident. The person who chooses to get behind the wheel of a vehicle and drive while impaired no matter how much or how little his blood alcohol was at the time was wrong. The life he lived before that day has nothing to do with his poor choice that day at that time. We can say how wonderful a person he was or is and nothing will change his actions on that day at that hour and at that minute. He like many other fine people in the community choose to drink and drive and never get caught. But like so many others police, fire and judges and the general public who get behind the wheel and drive drunk he got caught in the worse way. He will never be able to take back his actions, because he took a life. Many drive impaired every day and get away with it. Some get caught and some learn while others live with their actions for life. There is no excuse for his actions as he chose his.

Posted by: BoBob Location: USA on Aug 18, 2008 at 03:01 AM
to the dereks of the world...when in a hole, stop digging.

Posted by: Fran & Mike Location: Mishawaka on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:06 AM
As members of the Still Cruisin' car club we want to extend our sincerest condolences to the Ragsdale family. Kenny, you and your family were in the hearts and minds of all your friends at the sunday night Bonnie Doon cruise in. Our prayers are with you.

Posted by: a mother on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:00 AM
This is so very sad, when will people learn, what does it take? It is such a senseless tragedy that will change lives forever. Please everyone be smart DO NOT drink and drive, no exceptions!! My prayers are with the Ragsdale family. God be with you.

Posted by: Robert McMasters Location: Elkhart on Aug 18, 2008 at 12:32 AM
Derek Dygulski deserves the death penalty along with with Shane MeGee who killed Patric Sawer. Both of these men choose to kill when they took their first drink.

Posted by: Annie and Jason Location: Osceola on Aug 17, 2008 at 11:32 PM
Kenny, Heather, Kim and Jenny - We are truly sorry for the loss of Carol. What an amazing woman! Over dinner tonight, my Mom and Dad shared wonderful memories of Kenny and Carol. Remember to always treasure those special stories of Carol for those stories and memories told over and over again will keep her gentle spirit alive! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Tough Pill To Swallow Location: Home, and sober on Aug 17, 2008 at 11:19 PM
E, It's a tough thing to hear right now. But thanks for trying to show the other side. Maybe time will help some heal. Derek may have a heart, but I wish he, and his friends that wee drinking with him would have had a brain so that they would have prevented this from happening. PLEASE DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!

Posted by: Melanie Location: Mishawaka on Aug 17, 2008 at 11:10 PM
I went to school with Kim Ragsdale...I was in the class of 88'. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Posted by: Deb on Aug 17, 2008 at 10:54 PM
E, what do you call someone who takes the life of another? Especially when they're drunk? I agree the family will never be the same, but neither will the Ragsdale family and they were the innocent party in all this. Yes, he drank, he drove and he killed someone. That was not an accident. Driving drunk is never an accident. He might have a heart, but he did stop the heart of someone else and devastated another family. I can't feel sorry for him. He made his choice to drink and drive. My condolences to the Ragsdale family. May God give you peace in this very trying time.

Posted by: E on Aug 17, 2008 at 10:17 PM
I understand it is very difficult to accept a drunk driver taking an innocent wonderful lady, wife, mother and grandmother's life too soon. I send my prayers to the family. I am sorry for your loss. However I am a friend of the Dygulski family. They are being made to sound like they are an alcoholic family - THEY ARE NOT!! Derek is going to have to live with this the rest of his life. He is a very quiet and reserved young man. This is a very very devestating tragic accident that will change the lives of some many family members on both sides of the accident. Derek is not a "punk, just another drunk, killer" or any of the other nasty names he is being called here. His family is trying to cope with his choice of bad decisions and losing him to jail. Yes the family will still be able to see him, but Derek and the entire Dygulski family will never be the same, ever. Once again so sorry for the tragic loss, but please don't make Derek out to be a monster, he does have a heart.

Posted by: RICK AND CYNDI Location: MISHAWAKA on Aug 17, 2008 at 08:50 PM
HEY I DON'T KNOW QUITE WHAT TO SAY AT THIS POINT EXCEPT WE HAVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU ALL YOUR MOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE GREATEST AND DAD SUCH A KIDDER. WE WILL BE SEEING YOU ASAP. ANYTHING ANY OF YOU NEED IN THIS TRAGIC TIME PLEASE REMEMBER WE ARE THERE!!! WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS ALWAYS: RICK AND CYNDI

Posted by: anonymous Location: south bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 08:44 PM
I happen to be very close with Derek and he to is a car enthusast his whole life has been about his race cars this is not the person he is but he to is suffering a deep tragedy and just last week I held him as he cried and tried to cope I'm not making excuses for his actions but the person I know and love I know is suffering truly for his actions and will never be the same and I know this because he is not handling this at all but don't pass judgement on someone you don't know he to is a brother,son, proud first time uncle,nephew,grandson,and a best friend he does have a truly wonderful and caring family for anyone that truly knows them my thoughts and prayers go out to everyone involved in this tragic accident

Posted by: Daysha Location: Elkhart, IN on Aug 17, 2008 at 07:19 PM
My condolences go to the whole Ragsdale family. Carol was a great person and she will be greatly missed! I have worked with Carol for the past 6 years and let me tell you, she was an amazing person! She loved her family and most of all love spending time with her grandchildren. She is such a sweet lady and had such a big heart! I wish Kenny the best with his recoveries and we will all be keeping you in our prayers! God bless you all!

Posted by: Bill andn Laura Location: Mishawaka on Aug 17, 2008 at 07:09 PM
Kenny, Kim, Jennifer and Heather - Please accept our deepest condolences for not only your loss but everyone who knew and loved Carol. She was the nicest, most considerate person I ever knew. Nothing ever seemed to keep her down and she never said anything bad about anyone. Kenyy - take care and heal both physically and mentally - Girls - Take care of your Dad and give all of your kids a big hug/kisss and let them know how much your Mom loved them. And remember how much she loved you

Posted by: anonymous Location: south bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 06:38 PM
I have known Uncle Derek since I was a little child, he has never been a drunk, that you people see him as. He just lost someone he loved. and unfortualy he made the worst mistake of his life. He should be punshied just like all that commit a crime, but I know the true person he is, and he will think of this loved ones life, with him forever. I guess there is a lesson to be learned, and that is a life can change with every choice we make. My prayers go out to the family of the Ragsdale and to the Dygulski.

Posted by: vicki Location: austin, texas on Aug 17, 2008 at 06:31 PM
Kennie, Kim,Jennifer, Heather,Carol's Grandkids & sister & brothers...this is Vicki, as you know Carol has been my dearest of friends for over 35 years.Leaving Indiana & moving to Texas in 1976, time nor distance never diminished our friendship/love.I called Carol most every week and last talked to her just days ago...Im in shock and devastated. All of you,anyone who knew Carol would agree without reservation she is the kindest, sweetest, most unselfish spirit we have ever been blessed to know...her life was one big expression of love and goodness and the world is a lesser place without her in it, but I assure all of you she will continue to watch over you...just believe and you will feel her holding your hand.Kennie,I cannot imagine what you are faced with, my heart breaks for you and the unjustness of this horrific undeserved unconsciencable tragic loss, please know you are in my prayers as are you all & that Carol would want you to just keep lovin those gkids for he

Posted by: Anonymous Location: anonymous on Aug 17, 2008 at 06:27 PM
This is not a place to throw acusations at a family you dont know, lets remember that a loved one has lost their life, but I happen to know the brother of the driver that caused the accident, he has been living in Florida with his wife and newly daughter, not a drunk as portrayed he is, he too, is a victim in this accident that should have never took place again my thoughts and prayers go the the Ragsdale and Dygulski family.

Posted by: Dash Location: So. Bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 04:40 PM
The kid who killed and injured this couple should kill himself. Or better yet, tie him to the front of a car then go drive in a demoltion derby with him on the front! God why does this stuff have to happen??! Haven't we all been told over and over and over....DON'T DRIVE DRUNK!!!!!!!!!! God bless the families. I wish I could reach out and help their hearts heal. You're in my prayers.

Posted by: raggedy Location: south bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 03:32 PM
drunk at 7:00 a.m.? Ok what ever happened to the bars closing at 2:00 and the bartenders and their establishments being held responisble for people leaving and driving? I am so sorry for both families

Posted by: Tina Location: South Bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 02:13 PM
Heather-My prayers are with you! I lost my mother 5 years ago to a heart attack she was only 42. My Grandparents were friends with your parents. I lost my Grandpa last August also (Larry Davis). I will be thinking of you and my Grandma was very upset to hear. It does get easier with time. I promise.

Posted by: Mark Location: Michiana on Aug 17, 2008 at 02:13 PM
The drunken driver who ends up killing an innocent citizen will receive [most likely] less time or a less severe sentence than some unemployed mom or dad who sells pot to someone ??? what is wrong with this picture ?

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 17, 2008 at 02:04 PM
my thoughts and prayers go out to all involved in the accident, and their families that surround them for the Ragsdales and Mr. Dygulski they are all truly loved by friends and families in instances like this all need to remain strong and let faith be your guide

Posted by: Anonymous Location: south bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 02:02 PM
my condolences go out to the ragsdale family...i too lost a family member to a drunk driver. its an unfair way to lose someone you love...i hope the drunk driver gets what he/she deserves. my family is still waiting on a verdict of whats to become of my cousin's "killer." again...my thoughts and prayers to the ragsdales

Posted by: Anonymous Location: South Bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:44 PM
I am deeply sorry for the Ragsdale family, This tragic accident should have never happened, and he will be punished for this crime,but dont pass judgement on a person in a article that you read one time in the paper, I have been best frinds with the driver for 21 years that took the life of a woman that should have lived with her family for many more years and as a mother myself I would want the worst punishment for this crime, I am not here to make excuses for his actions but I know that no matter what people comment on how they feel and they have a right too, please know that the man I have known for 21 years is disgusted with his choice that took the life from loved ones too soon, my prayers go to the ragsdales family,and the Dygulski family for all remain in my prayers and the lord place the only judgement,

Posted by: Anon on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:25 PM
Heather, I am sorry for this tragic loss of family for you. I hope you are letting God comfort you at this time. I hope this punk is convicted and faces the maximum penalty, though that penalty is not enough for the loss of a life.

Posted by: mark on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:25 PM
7 am and drunk? why even leave the house then. too late now though

Posted by: Classic on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:22 PM
This is the crumpled Corvair I am the car in the picture I hope the sight of me serves as an example of what can happen. Pray and make burnt sacrifices to whatever Gods you pray to for me in car Heaven > classic car

Posted by: lori Location: usa on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:04 PM
Matt, The problem is that he was so drunk that he couldn't control the vehicle, then he probably won't remember what he did!! There needs to be stricter punishments for these type of people!!! My condolences to the family, and prayers for the father to make a speedy recovery.

Posted by: Stephanie and Matt Location: Ohio on Aug 17, 2008 at 12:26 PM
Heather,Jenny and Kim, We are so sorry to hear about your Mom and Dad. Our thoughts and paryers are with you.

Posted by: Bill Location: Elkhart on Aug 17, 2008 at 12:13 PM
So sorry for your loss Heather! May God bring you justice. Our family is praying for you and yours.

Posted by: Meixel Family Location: Mishawaka on Aug 17, 2008 at 10:16 AM
My family and I lived near Carol and Kenny many years ago. In fact my folks had a home built on Providence Court back in 1970 and lived there for many years. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Ragsdale family. From what my folks have been telling me this tragic morning about Carol and Kenny, they sound like they are really nice and good people. I just hope that the guy who killed Carol gets what he SHOULD get, and not just a "slap on the wrist". The fact that he changed his story about about what happened numerous times tells me that there might be more to this story than what is being said to the public.

Posted by: Saddened and Irate Location: Indiana on Aug 17, 2008 at 10:04 AM
Derek isn't the only person in the Dygulski family that has a problem with alcohol and makes it a habit to drive under the influence regularly (brother, mom who is often drunk at 3 PM in the afternoon). I hope you losers get help before you kill someone too. 7 AM??? Who is drunk at 7 AM!?!?! Completely unacceptable. My wife's family is friends of the Ragsdale family. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers; we wish you all the strength in the world during this tragic time. We cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are going through trying to deal with this completely senseless tragedy. It really sucks when bad things happen to such good people.

Posted by: Todd Shingledecker Location: Mishawaka on Aug 17, 2008 at 09:14 AM
I went to high school with Kim and I have a 67 Plymouth and used to see your parents at car events around the area every once in awhile. I'm so sorry this has happened to your family.

Posted by: concerned Location: south bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 06:35 AM
Iam really sorry about your parents Heather, you are right, this should have never happened to anyone. The bar should be held responsible for selling him the deadly stuff that caused this horrible crash. Our prayers are with you. People like this man should have to be put in a chain gang, to clean the roads and clean the state until his sentence is up. if ever it is. Not sit in jail and be fed, clothes, and a warm bed to sleep in. HE SHOULD BE PUNISHED FOR HIS CRIMES....

Posted by: Heather Location: Mishawaka on Aug 17, 2008 at 01:01 AM
This is Heather Ragsdale I am the youngest daughter and my life has changed in an instant my mother should have never died like that today or any other day> she was my best friend my mom and my daughters nana and should have been with us for many years from now> she is a great and amazing person and will always love her> love you mom forever and love you dad and i will always be there for you> please keep us in your prayers and thoughts> heather lyne

Posted by: Matt Location: South bend on Aug 17, 2008 at 12:48 AM
This man that hit them will get whats coming to him. And for the rest of his life he will have to deal with the fact that that he Killed someone from his dumb#@! mistake Have fun in Jail buddy..

Posted by: TR & Nancy Location: Mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:28 PM
Heather, you have been in our prayers since this morning. Hold on to your family and hold them close. We will be praying for you tomorrow. We are so sorry for the loss and pain your family is having now. God bless you all.

Posted by: joe Location: mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:26 PM
I can't believe this has even happened, it seems like its a cruel nightnare. The drivers of both cars where both car enthusiasts. My condolences to both of the families involved and everyone else caught in the middle.

Posted by: sa Location: new carlisle on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:10 PM
Correction... one drunk. No problem I apologize Judy. I had no idea. God help these people indeed.

Posted by: Jason Location: Nappanee on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:01 PM
At 7:00 am this trash is blitzted and the couple are just out for a stroll in thier classic car to enjoy old times. Get your head out of your #@$. DONT DRIVE BUZZED LET ALONE DRINK. Hope you go to jail for murder. And who is drink at 7:00am

Posted by: Anonymous Location: mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 10:55 PM
i dont understand why this news station has let people post the names of the people on here,just abunch of b.s.

Posted by: in the know Location: SBI on Aug 16, 2008 at 10:22 PM
Nothing was mentioned about the county FACT alcohol crash team being called out, so I would assume alcohol may NOT be a factor here.

Posted by: yo Location: Michigan on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:58 PM
I pray for those that have lost family members.. I also pray that that driver is treated fairly in all aspects...

Posted by: B on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:36 PM
Don't be upset with Judy. It's the Between the Buns that needs to be looked at for taking "donations" for the daughter and then "praying" for the man who killed her mom and was arrested for DUI. That's poor taste.

Posted by: David Location: Leicestershire, England on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:12 PM
As an ex-police officer in England, I recall with horror the number of accidents caused by drunken drivers. No amount of rage will bring back the lady who has died; sadly, there is no penalty available that will justly punish the arrogance of someone who feels free to drink, drive and kill. The news article's mention of safety issues with the Corvair are anodyne and banal. It appears that a car other than a Corvair, driven by a drunk, was the direct cause of the accident. I never had the privilege of knowing Carol; evidently one of the decent and loved people of this world, killed by someone who had no concerns for anyone except themselves. So many more people will die in precisely the same way this year, next year and beyond. May Providence provide comfort and peace for the family of Carol, and all the other Carols yet to come.

Posted by: james Location: mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:10 PM
To the Ragsdale family I'm so sorry for your lost. Our prays are with you a great women and loving mother and your strong amazing father are and will always be a great memory to me and others that have had a blessing to meet. James Lidy

Posted by: Bob Bauer Location: House Springs, Mo. on Aug 16, 2008 at 08:40 PM
Once again, the press for the sake of editorializing must show their weak side and make unsupported comments like "the Corvair was known for it's safety issues" Perhaps doing ones homework would help you better serve the public. The car and its maker were exonerated in Federal Court from slanderous comments made by a self serving idiot. Check it out and learn

Posted by: bubba Location: corvair center forum on Aug 16, 2008 at 08:31 PM
so sorry to hear about this. im a vair freak also. my condolences.........

Posted by: Judy Location: Mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 08:21 PM
To sa: I am sorry you misunderstood my statement. My comment about the tree at that intersection was meant in good faith. I have had to pull up almost into Lincoln Way to see around that tree for traffic. I had no idea what caused the crash. I do apologize for any misunderstanding. God be with the families of Mr and Mrs Ragsdale.

Posted by: Family Friend Location: Osceola on Aug 16, 2008 at 08:01 PM
The Between the Buns restaurants will be accepting condolences and donations for the family because one of the daughters is an employee. Please continue to pray for the father's recovery and for EVERYONE involved. It is not our place to judge what happened. Before we assume the worst about the other driver, remember that he/she will be scarred by this as well. Our prayers go with them all.

Posted by: Nottie Location: mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 07:43 PM
Yes, the driver was DRUNK and Carol and Kenny Ragsdale and their children, Kim, Jennifer (mammoletti) and Heather are dearly loved. Our prayers are for you as Kenny recovers from SERIOUS injuries. (Broken Pelvis and crushed Trachea amongst others) The only feelings I have for the drunk who killed Carol are wait till Kenny gets out the of hospital....

Posted by: someone Location: South Bend on Aug 16, 2008 at 06:42 PM
Rest in Peace

Posted by: Lisa Location: Granger on Aug 16, 2008 at 05:50 PM
"Can't remember what happened"? Whatever. My guess is he was intoxicated.

Posted by: Black Mustang on Aug 16, 2008 at 05:11 PM
My wife and I will be praying for everybody involve in this Accident. We have been at many Classic car shows and have seen this Convair and its owners. Again our prays are with you

Posted by: who cares Location: wherever on Aug 16, 2008 at 03:12 PM
What does it matter the gender of the second vehicle?

Posted by: sa Location: new carlisle on Aug 16, 2008 at 02:34 PM
Why not remove all the trees for these drunks Judy?

Posted by: KAREN Location: FL on Aug 16, 2008 at 12:08 PM
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THIS FAMILY, I PERSONALLY KNOW THEM AND I AM DEEPLY SORRY

Posted by: Randy & Nicole Location: Mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:58 AM
Heather, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss.

Posted by: shannon Location: heirman on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:45 AM
that was carel and ken ragsdale and ilove them both so much

Posted by: Mishawaka Location: Mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:20 AM
The accident was fatal for the passenger. Please keep praying for the family.

Posted by: Eric Macht Location: South Bend on Aug 16, 2008 at 11:11 AM
I was in shock to hear about this accident this morning. I know the couple who were driving the Corvair and have known their youngest daughter for years. My prayers are with the family and friends. God bless you.

Posted by: knows the family on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:55 AM
my thoughts are with the family right now, i will keep you in my prayers and i pray you will be strong together as you go through this tough time

Posted by: Judy Location: Mishawaka on Aug 16, 2008 at 09:11 AM
I seriously hope the passenger of the Classic Car survived this crash. By the way, this was at the intersection of Lincoln Way and Oakside. I use this intersection daily and there is a huge tree at this intersection that needs to be removed as you can not see traffic coming from the west unless you inch up into the oncoming traffic. As I was at the scene this morning I thought the driver of the second vehicle was a woman? Prayers for all that were involved.